A few things, we are having a first bday party at a community hall because we have lots of family, do you think people will think we are snotty because of that? it will be worded : held at Murray Hall, they many not realize it is a community hall but there is no address for the place (really there isnt) so I have to put that down. also, my mom suggested putting down my daughters clothing size on the invitations, i dont think I should, what do you think? Also, we are going to have a meal, should I put: "bring your appetite"? I think this is a good idea because then people might be more likely to RSVP if they know that we are serving food and we'll need to know how many people are coming. Do you think that would look tacky?
2007-02-27 07:23:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
first birthday parties are always good and fun to celebrate! Wish your daughter a happy birthday for me! Even though I don't know her, just say that all of us at Yahoo Answers are wishing her a happy 1st! Anyway, I recently attended a 1st birthday party. It was a nice fun and private event so I don't think you will be thought of as snotty, but will be thought of as a nice family celebrating a birthday of their child. What is so snotty about that? And that you also want to share that moment, event, or occassion with the family. I don't think that is snotty at all. It's kinda nice! I mean if you like spending time with family and friends! The gifts don't really matter as it's the thought that counts. And you'll have a fun time and lots of memories from this down the road. =) She'll grow up thinking she was someone special.
2007-02-27 07:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by the BABY 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No of course I don't think that's too snotty to have your daughters birthday party at a hall~ you can have it at Disneyland if you'd prefer. Its your child's First Birthday I would go all out for my son's first birthday also. It's the first one they are having! It doesn't matter what people may think or say about what you do for your daughter, its your daughter not theirs. They do what they want with their child and you do what you want with yours. Also yea I think you definitely should put the clothing size down (one size bigger than she is reccomended) and shoe size its always great to have clothes as gifts handy. Considering this will be your childs first birthday CLOTHES to me are PERFECT they are too young to notice anyways. When they are two years old thats when TOYS will count. They will love toys galore. Anyways clothes are the best~never could have too many BIG sizes too. I think you should mention that there will be food served so people could bring their appetite as you would say that way the food wont get wasted and everyone will have a good time with a full stomach smiles. Also please keep in mind some people just dont RSVP so keep that in mind they will show up w/o RSVP-in you! Well hope it turns out to be a sucess happy b-day to your daughter smiles~
2007-02-27 16:49:14 · answer #2 · answered by collins2004_08 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should put your child clothing size on the invite. And yes put bring your appetite because that will be the first question is there going to be food? I think it is rude when people put down the child clothing size. Give the person time to RSVP and believe me they will ask you what size the child wears and they will ask. Also sometimes people have in mind what to buy. And having it in a hall is great because other kids will have room to run around and play. You r party will turn out great. when my daughter turned one we had it in the house and the children went crazy. I had to clean my house for two days. Have fun.
2007-02-27 15:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by Jamonican 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's snotty at all to have a party at a community hall. If you have that many guests, sometimes a home party isn't practical, it's not about being snotty. You should definatly mention the food, but I personally would not add your child's clothing size, because that's like asking for a gift (which is the point of the party, but you know what I mean). Definatly add a RSVP.....and have fun!!
2007-02-27 15:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mama Ro 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe you could do a gift registry, then you can note her size, its best that people know instead of buying things that are too big or too small, but i don't like it on the invites.
Having a registry will help because you have a big family, so she wont get the same things.
birthday parties usually have food, so they should already know to come hungry. RSVP will be good so that you will know how much food or favors to have. If there are going to be a lot of kids you should have little fun bags for them so they wont feel left out when your daughter has all the gifts.
2007-02-27 15:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have the party where you want, if you have a large family that will be attending by all means have it at the hall :) Clothing sizes, yes that would definitely be tacky. Bring your appetite, I think it gets your point across of there being food served in a playful way.
My sons first birthday is in April, we are just thinking about what to do for his :) I think we are going to just use the local Children's Park since it will be spring! Plenty of room for everyone!
ENJOY!
2007-02-27 15:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by Betsy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a great idea to me. Skip your daughters size I agree it sounds tacky. For sure write the bring your appetite (sounds cute) and it will make your guests more willing to rsvp. You never know when the people rsvp they might just ask you what gift they should get your child. So have a list ready for gifts you would like for your daughter, Oh, in advance Happy 1st Birthday to your daughter!
2007-02-27 15:36:10 · answer #7 · answered by shorty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its fine to have the party at a hall! I do not think that comes off being "snotty" No I would skip the size of the child. If people want to buy clothes they will probably call you to ask her size, or figure it out on there own.
2007-02-27 15:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by BOOTS! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there hope your party goes well. I think it is neat not snotty.Here are somethings you might consider doing for the party On invitations give direction as best as possible (hint) it's just pass the creek on right or something to give them to look for to find it ,also you may want to add balloons to things along the way. As far as the baby's clothing size I think people are going to buy or give what they want to give so it pobably won't need to be included. And for meal "bring your appetite is good." Enjoy the party.
2007-02-27 15:42:31 · answer #9 · answered by lovablegal77 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its your child's first birthday party but remember the party is going to be more geared towards the adults because the child is still young and doesn't understand the meaning of having a party. I wouldn't make it to complicated because you can't depend on everyone showing up either so don't go all out.The day will come and go so fast, your child will probably fall asleep during the event. Let your child be a child and remember to have fun as a family and not because your trying to impress the guest.
2007-02-27 15:34:20 · answer #10 · answered by Shanee 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋