I am having dinner AGAIN this week with a straight friend of mine. He is aware of my orientation. We have dinner once a week or so, but I have noticed that the meetings are becoming more intimate.
Also, it is always just the two of us, and it's always hush-hush.
Do you think that he is interested in me ? I have asked him to bring his girlfriend, but she is always "busy", and he has never introduced her to me. HELP !!
2007-02-27 07:08:04 · 6 answers · asked by johnnyman 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First of all, it sounds like you have a neat friend that accepts you personally as you are. He may realize that you are the same person to him regardless of orientation or knowing you has made him evaluate his own feelings. I wish you were more specific on what you mean by the meetings becoming more intimate. If he is touching you or telling you personal feelings, or hinting, he may not be as straight as you assume. For now, be grateful for the friendship and come out and ask him what he really thinks when the timing is right. I suspect you will know when that happens.
2007-02-27 07:20:05 · answer #1 · answered by Brent W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a date... but maybe he's scared of what his girlfriend or friends will think of him dining with a gay man.
If you want to find out and are willing to do stuff with him... go for dinner and then drinks at your place... alcohol always makes things go smoother!
Good luck!
2007-02-27 15:14:13 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Sweetpea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dine out with my straight friends all the time. Funny thing - straight people like to eat too. YMMV
2007-02-27 15:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by gotanmp3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like whatever it is he doesn't want it to get out. Becareful so you don't get hurt. He might play games with you for a while then run. Good Luck!!!
2007-02-27 15:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by lez23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say after dinner go watch a movie at your house and have every thing set up and go from there
2007-02-27 15:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a date, if your not interested i would back out of it! but hey, a lttle fun wouldn't be bad!!
2007-02-27 15:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋