I have been with him for 2 months now, and I am just not feeling it, but I do find him attractive, nice, and we have alot in common.
2007-02-27 07:04:29 · 12 answers · asked by batai_68 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Go find someone to fall in love with. And let him fall in love with someone who will love him equally.
2007-02-27 07:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to say yes. By now I think you should know if you want to make a lifetime commitment with the guy and if you don't, you should think about breaking off the romantic part of the relationship. BUT since you have some things in common, it does sound like you can remain friends with him.
2007-02-27 16:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by jasgallo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go be with someone that you will trully love and let him find someone that will love him as he deserves to be loved. Otherwise, you are just taking up a perfectly nice guy that someone else could be in love with in a matter of minutes. Its really not fair to him, or to you. You need to be where you'll experience the happiness of true love.
2007-02-27 15:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by The One and Only 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking to fall in love and this guy is not doing it, then why would you continue with the relationship. That will just keep you from finding the right guy in the right relationship.
2007-02-27 15:15:12 · answer #4 · answered by rbarc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact you are asking the question means you have doubts. Don't string him along, and don't sell yourself short. A dynamite lover is someone you like to be around, AND you have loving feelings for. Two months was plenty of time to test your feelings.
2007-02-27 15:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by tallymh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats a really hard one considering I am a nice guy but if I have to I'll put my foot down but in my opinion why do you feel its not going any where? is he falling for you? has he already fell for you? I woul;d wiegh out all the facts cause you dont want to hurt him but if thats the case then just break it to him gently
2007-02-27 15:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by Andres A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with her..there is someone ouyt there that will make you trully happy..and someone for him the same...i mean whats the point of a relationship if you dont fall in love after a while...its like getting married and finding out the person you married is gay and married you out of pressure..i hope this help a little..
2007-02-27 15:09:51 · answer #7 · answered by lightingboy220 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is more than a romantic feeling. After a year or so, romantic feelings disipate, and you have to learn to love your parnter. It takes work to build a lasting relationship.
2007-02-27 15:09:01 · answer #8 · answered by Christopher Boston 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go and find someone who really rocks your boat. You shouldn't want to 'settle' and you should let him be with someone who will really love him.
2007-02-27 15:12:47 · answer #9 · answered by my_name 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do anything give it some more thought and a little bit more time. But if you're still not in love with him please don't lead him on.
2007-02-27 17:02:09 · answer #10 · answered by Bill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋