O.K. My girlfriend finished with me on Sunday, things had been going downhill anyway,and the stress of it all had caused me to have an eating disorder which I told her about, & said i was seeing a doctor bout it,she felt 'we' couldnt continue.We had dated 4 a year. She said she didnt want me contacting her, & that she wanted 2 weeks. I spoke to her today,she said that for my sake, 2 weeks was best to get over her,& then we'd have to see what happened. I said, in 2 weeks, if I ask u out 4 a drink as friends,would u want2?She said that it'd depend on how 'I (Not her!)' felt, bcos it isn't always easy..... the thing is....i still like her,& i know if I cured my prob,she may hav me bak,but i doubt it. so questions...has anyone had a situation lyk ths?is it best to meet her aftr 2 weeks,wht shud i say?shud i just never speak 2her again? please let me know!
2007-02-27 07:03:58 · 1 answers · asked by dafadf a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well if you want to keep her as at least a friend you should reach out when you feel ready to. Don’t rush yourself or your eating disorder could relapse. If you just don’t think you can be just friends and you are sure she doesn’t want to get back together then just move on. Don’t hurt yourself more by trying to force her to want to be with you again.
2007-02-27 07:10:13 · answer #1 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋