My husband breached the contact order he had for my son. What should i do and what will happen?

Question

He was supposed to stay in a center and stay there with him for 2 hours but instead he took him away to his family which is not allowed.

Answer 1

Contact your solicitor. Your husband was very stupid to do this as he proved that he cannot be trusted. I assume there was a good reason for the order that was made.

Answer 2

Your in a very sticky situation here and you are going to need to be very careful.
Your husband broke the rules and he would be fully aware that these rules are there.
Also the centre itself is at fault as your child is supposed to be under supervision,where were the centres staff when your husband took your son out.
What you need to ask yourself are you comfortable with your husband taking your son where he likes without your knowledge.
If the answer is your not happy ,then you must act immediately especially if there are a reason behind it that you have not put in your question.
DO NOT take your son to the centre until this is resolved,this applies to both you and your husband.
Whoever is responsible for setting up meetings ie. Social Services etc must be informed of what has happened and that you refuse to take your son until you have assurances it won't happen again.
Insist that any contact your husband has with your son in future are fully supervised or you will refuse your husband access.
I know it might sound harsh but your husband knew he was breaking the rules yet still took your son without permission.
We here all to much about ex's etc abducting there children from there ex partners,don't make yourself one of them.
I'm not saying your husband would do this,but nowadays you can't take chances with your childs life.
I assume you dealt with a solicitor to arrange access etc, see them and explain what happened and that all contact is severed until sorted out.

If on the other case you trust your husband and feel it was a bad judegment on his case to go out with your son.
You can speak to him and tell him you were'nt happy that he took your son without permission,but just this once you will let it be.
Warn him if he even takes your son out for an icecream without your permission you will have him arrested.And that he will not get any contact with your son until a court makes a ruling,and this can take some time.
And as he as broken set rules on his contact already the judge will be quite harsh on him,and he will get less contact than before.
Hope this gives you a bit of help on your choices of what to do,and good luck.

Answer 3

You need to refer back to the Solicitor, Most contact centres book in the parent who is having contact with their child, and if they are required to stay at the contact Centre for the duration then it would be documented that the Child was removed without consent. (there is always supposed to be someone on reception)
Speak to the manager at the contact centre and see if the incident was booked onto their records.
When you speak to your solicitor you can also ask them to speak to the contact centre for verification.

What will happen will depend on you & the reason of restricted contact. Your solicitor acts on your behalf, If you truly have concerns with the incident it needs to recorded with the solicitor, I would guess if the Family court are involved then, you would have to go back to court for a review hearing at some point. Unfortunatly when a parent is in this situation there is so much stress involved, contact centres where there is a court involvement are not usually a off hand decision. In most cases for it to be recomended there is concern over the safety of the child and /or the parenting ability of the attending parent.

Try not to pass on your feelings about the incident ot the child, contact centres are tough enough as it is.
Refer to your solicitor and check your Court papers regarding the contact.

Answer 4

Try not to be too mean i am sure you former partners family who are also connected to your son through blood lines love him very much and wanted to see him also, the question is will you allow this?? Please dont be too hasty with law unless you have a good reason for your son not see his other grandmother and father etc, think what your son will want, maybe he really wants to see everybody else??

I cannot accept the other answers given, unless there is some kind of risk to the child, go back to court etc? please get real, to adults who had a child should be able to sort this out, it not like he has run away abroad or something, maybe a little carried away with emotion, speak to him first like the adults you were when you concieved

Answer 5

If your husband is under a 'court order' for supervised vistitation in a 'center' where he can be observed, and he removed your child from that center and took him to 'his family' then you should have him 'criminally charged' with 'kidnapping' ... and you should be able to do this even if you have your son 'home safe' again ... because if you let him 'get away with it once' he'll do it again ... and the next time he may take your child 'out of state' or to another country where 'getting him back' could take years if you could do it at all. CALL AN ATTORNEY IMMEDIATELY for help.

Answer 6

It by no potential ceases to amaze me how little feeling and expertise of human nature some human beings have. This woman isn't scuffling with the daddy from seeing his infant, she does no longer opt for you contained in the childs existence, you as a lady might want to keep in mind that. that is not a question of what "we" can do, you have not any section in this, it truly is between the mummy and the daddy.Bye the way, in a unmarried sentence you declare this guy as your "boy pal" the different as your husband, we are all somewhat at a loss for words by those feedback.

Answer 7

speak to your solicitor first.Probably have to go back to the family court.He will probably get a slap on the wrist/warning if this is the first time he has done it,unless he is classed as a at risk parent.

Answer 8

He's your son, and you are responsible for his well being. There must be a reason for the contract right? So you should inform whom ever needs to be informed and let them deal with it. This has to be done for your son's sake.

Answer 9

If he was in a centre why wasn't he stopped from leaving?

Answer 10

REPORT HIM !!