So Theres This Boy...And I Really Love Him. We Went Out For 4 Months. Then I Called it Quits. He Liked Me For 2 Months After That, But I Never Really Cared, What Kills Me The Most Is That I Know I Had The Chance. Ever Since Then We've Kinda Had One Of Those "Hook Up" Relationships. Not To Long Ago We Went To The Movies And Well Yeah =]. He Had Been Talking To Another Girl But He Told Me Many Times That She Didn't Mean A Thing To Him. I've Been Mean To Him Lately To Make It Seem Like I Dont Like Him. But Now Him And Jessica Are Offically A Couple And I'm Jealous. I Thought I Was Over Him But I Was Completely Wrong. I Thought I Had Told Him How I Felt, But I Guess I Was Wrong. He Still Flirt And I Know We Still Have Something Between Us. What Do I Do?
-Lee
2007-02-27 06:49:19 · 9 answers · asked by Lee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You don't want to hear my advice but I'll give it to you anyway cause it's from experienced experience! Thing is hon, you have to let it go just for the moment. Learn from what you did wrong and accept that he has a girlfriend for now.
I think he knows you still like him and this new girl might just be a decoy to make you jealous and he'll end it in time if that's the case. If not then he's already made his decision. I'm sorry, I've been there and it's rough I do know. Time is a healer and it will tell. If it's meant to be then it will not pass you by. I promise!
2007-02-27 07:13:42 · answer #1 · answered by cloclo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop playing games and tell him your real feelings...go for broke...it's the only way you will ever know what might be is to take a chance...if he responds that it is too late you are no worse off then you are now. But given that you feel a connection I think if you are honest with him he will choose to be with you.
2007-02-27 06:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has moved on then you should, or atleast respect his decision to be a couple at this time. If it's meant to be with you and him then another opportunity will arise for you to show him your true feelings. But this time do not treat him badly to hide your feelings, cause you can see that it only hurt you in the end. Next time he's available, you need to tell him and show him your true feelings.
2007-02-27 06:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's what happens when you play games. I think you should just move on. Find another guy, if down the road you and he meet up and neither is dating, then give it another try, but don't break them up.
2007-02-27 07:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the future dont play games with peoples hearts. it seems like he waited around for you, got the idea that you werent interested and then moved on.
2007-02-27 06:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by Lucie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you really like hurting him, move on and find someone else. you've done enough to mess this one up. but if you really want him,then you better have one big true full discussion with him,be up front with everything. good luck.
2007-02-27 06:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by skip3800 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try hooking up with someone else to get your mind off of him.
2007-02-27 06:54:58 · answer #7 · answered by lexiss91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully learn from your behavior.....AND really examine your feelings it sounds like you just want him to hang around and don't really care that much for him.
2007-02-27 06:54:32 · answer #8 · answered by Bobbie E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn from your mistakes and move on .people dont like to play games ,that is kid stuff
2007-02-27 06:55:22 · answer #9 · answered by raindovewmn41 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋