Can somebody tell me if it's a good idea to keep the baby .Also, i would like to know if it's easy in Orlando to do a abortion..Thanks for your answer....
2007-02-27 06:48:09 · 18 answers · asked by BOOKEY 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
The question you must ask yourself is, "Can I afford another child?" Then you have to consider whether you will be a good parent. If you decide you can't handle the situation for any reason, put the child up for adoption.
2007-02-27 06:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by annvictorblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your daughter would be 2 years old when the next baby is born. That's actually a pretty normal age gap, not terribly close together. If you can afford another child, then I encourage you to have the baby. It's another child like the one you already have...can you imagine life if you'd aborted her? I would have the baby, personally, but if you are sure you can't handle the child financially and emotionally, and you don't want to give the kid a chance at a better life with a loving adoptive family, then I'm sure there are abortion clinics in Orlando. Just do a google search for them, or for Planned Parenthood. Remember, it's your choice, but make sure it's the right choice, whatever you decide to do!
2007-02-27 07:07:34 · answer #2 · answered by grayhare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am sure your daughter would love to have a little brother or sister and being so close in age would help them bond more and be closer, and its easier on the mom to get it all over at one time. i do not believe in abortion . I am not here to judge you, but there are many couples out there that would love to have a baby if you don't wanna keep it. having and abortion is a big decision to make and it will haunt you for the rest of your life to know that you made the choice to terminate the life of an innocent little person; your child. if you cant handle a baby right now that is fine but give the child a chance to live and be loved by a family even if its not by your own. and there are open adoptions where the mother of the child can still be a part of its life. They just live with another family. Please think about the decision you are making. there are many choices out there make the right one for you and you son or daughter.
2007-02-27 07:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by Jeremysmom05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand how you could look at your 16 month old and think about having an abortion. Your next baby will be just like your daughter. That's like wishing your 16 month old daughter was dead! I don't mean that to sound hurtful, just my opinion. Before I had children, I thought I was pro-choice. But now that I'm a mom, I could never have an abortion!
If you can't handle keeping this baby, at least find a couple who are desperate to adopt.
2007-02-27 06:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to make sure 100% sure that you are pregnant. I really don't understand why you are thinking about an abortion when the baby don't ask to come to this world. You need to know that babies are gifts from God and there are lot of women that wish they can have one and experince the feeling of being mothers. If you are pregnant you should have it because is going to bring happyness to your family specially for your daughter. And if later you don't want to have more use birth control methods.
2007-02-27 07:26:39 · answer #5 · answered by ITALY06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got pregnant with my son after my daughters 1st birthday. they are 22months apart. its not hard. ur daughter will be 2 then. u will have to double up the diaper bill at 1st but most girls are easy to potty train. by the time the baby is here u can get ur daughter a todler bed and give the baby the crib. she shouldnt be on bottles so that wont be a problem. the only thing i can say is to be sure to show ur daughter lots of attention so she wont be jealous. i planned my kids to be that close. i have brothers and my parents waited 4yrs between each kid. mine are close they fight but they are close. theres rewards to having them close. but its ur choice what to do. im sure u will make the best choice for u. good luck.. im sorry i see everyone is saying no to abortion. i myself would not but it is ur choice. i dont think abortion should be a birthcontrol. but there are reason why abortion should be able to be done. say if u was rapped, or you could lose ur life then i say yes to abortion. but thank gawd its a choice only u can make and no one can make it for u.
2007-02-27 06:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by kitttkat2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my daughter is 16 months and I'm due again for my second child in a month. I'm so excited they will be able to play together. And I won't have to pack all of the baby stuff away cause I'll be needing it again soon. Don't choose abortion It's not the baby's fault that you weren't more careful.
2007-02-27 06:57:26 · answer #7 · answered by sweet lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i think that you should keep the baby so your 16 month old will have a sister or brother to play with and to get close too as the years go by .
2007-02-27 06:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ok wait i had a baby on dec 05 and then when she turned 6 months old i got pregnant im already giving birth anyday now.. so they are like almost 14 to15 months apart...why would you do that to your baby keep it ...just look at your baby the first one and say what would i do without you i would never ever consider abortion...i got pregnant at 17 and im 19 having another child close your legs cause you know you can conceive faster after having a child...
2007-02-27 06:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You had ur daughter, why would'nt you want to give this baby a chance at life? I think its a good idea for u to keep this baby, im sure ur daughter would love a baby brother or sister. But if you dont want to keep the baby than give it up for adoption.
2007-02-27 08:28:06 · answer #10 · answered by ButterFlyAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋