I wanted so bad for my beau to be interested in a committed relationship with me and now that he is I feel as though I am pushing him away...Is there any way of stopping this? I want to want to be with him forever!
2007-02-27 06:33:48 · 8 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't push him away. You wanted a commitment, and now that he is giving it, you are afraid. Of what? Ask yourself, and why. If you want to be with him forever, than be with him.
2007-02-27 06:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak for yourself... Not only have I not lost interest in my husband after 2 years, I am more interested now than ever before - and it keeps growing. How much prior relationship experience do you both have? Is it possible that you're still learning about yourself, relationships, what is important to you and what's not? Start paying attention to how you're feeling, and try to learn to interpret your emotions.
2007-02-27 14:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because for some odd reason we have this "Oh I want you but can't have you" feeling and for some weird reason we think that's hot. When we finally get that person we've been longing for we suddenly lose interest because there's no longer a challenge.
2007-02-27 14:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by lexiss91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wanted him so much before and now that u finally have him you wanna enjoy your success but u have already lost ur interest. don't forget- we don't fall in love when we want to- we fall in love when it's meant to be you don2t have to push urself to b with him
2007-02-27 14:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by kwlcmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you're treating him like a new toy that you been beggin your momma for a long time then when you finally get it you don't play with it anymore....maybe you need some accessories....
2007-02-27 14:45:02 · answer #5 · answered by JAMES R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont sounds like you do....if youre serious grow up and quit pushing him away...ppl who have deep love dont normally fear it.
2007-02-27 14:38:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its women nature.. we love rough guys who dont act like sheep's
2007-02-27 14:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by mimi ^____^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i ve been asking mysef about it all my life long!
2007-02-27 14:37:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋