We have both done it together in the past but shes not always there when in need. She does not do it alone>
2007-02-27 06:33:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She does not do it alone. LOL thats a good one honey.
Dont tell her. I once had a guy tell me and I dumped him pretty quick. Its like we know guys do it but dont care to discuss it.
2007-02-27 06:39:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It seems to me that you wouldn't have asked this question if it wasn't making you feel like you were keeping something from her. Therefore, I say you should tell her. Secrets are NO good in a relationship....they ALWAYS come back to haunt you. And you never know...it might turn her on. My guess is, that if the two of you have done it together, it WOULD turn her on. So tell her. I can't imagine a real woman getting mad much less dumping you as some of these answers have said, for pleasing yourself. Any sane woman knows that 99.9% of men do it. Just wait till you know she's in a good receptive mood, and be careful how you say it. Good Luck.
2007-02-27 06:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by Debbie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to tell all. Obviously if you do it together then Im sure she knows you do it alone. But I don't really see what the big deal is about it. We all have done it before. If she asks she asks and then you tell her, if she doesn't then don't offer the info. I think your making a bigger deal of it then what it is.
2007-02-27 06:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by beaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the Gold.
If the subject arises then share your needs, but it is not neccessary to discuss this. Many couples experience different sexual requirements. Yours might be higher than hers.
2007-02-27 06:43:25 · answer #4 · answered by Mr realistic...believer in truth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing to be ashamed of if she is not around to satisfy your desire. She would better have it that way than you going with another woman not withstanding whores.
How do you know she does not do it ? She may be just like you ashamed of acknowledging it to you.
No worry then.
2007-02-27 06:41:14 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Bo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know she does not do it alone? I wouldn't tell if you think it will hurt the relationship.
2007-02-27 06:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by CL R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know what she does when you aren't with her? Why would you tell, I always thought it should be a private thing.
2007-02-27 10:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell. If i found out my dude was jerkin his chicken all the time it would certainly gross me out and make me wonder why is he doing it. i would not wanna walk in on that. I think on this one you should use the, 'what she doesnt know wont hurt her' rule! But only on this!
2007-02-27 06:39:01 · answer #8 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it's sort of your biz, but it's also completely normal, no need to feel like you're keeping some dark secret or something!
2007-02-27 06:38:33 · answer #9 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know she doesn't do it? It's not like your cheating on her, it's you. If it makes you feel better then tell her but it's not something to stress over.
2007-02-27 06:43:14 · answer #10 · answered by pitre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋