My husband doesn't want sex lately, and he told me last week that he doesn't what is wrong with him? he said that he still thought I was very attractive that he just didn't want any! (It's about time)
I'm worried about him thought, what is wrong.
2007-02-27 06:20:05 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
We are both only 25 years old, married for 2 years, 4 year old girl.
2007-02-27 07:05:55 · update #1
There are a BUNCH of things that could be going wrong...
But separate them into the two basic pillars: emotional (or psychological, depending on how you want to name it), or physical.
In case of a physical problem, all you can really do is go to the doctor and ask for medication (cialis, viagra), or a form of therapy to help him overcome any other form of physical trouble in that area.
In case of emotional/psychological issues, all you can really do is perhaps see a couple's therapist, discuss your issues with him and have him try to pinpoint the cause of his problem, and nurture him as much as you can.
Body insecurity is long-associated to affect women. But it affects a large - very large - percentage of men, too.
Any other unprofessional type of advice you get in here isn't really going to cut it. Please, communicate, maybe go to a Church marriage counselor so that you don't have to pay expensive therapist fees, and try to take it one step at a time...with you being willing to take the lead most of the time.
Good luck.
2007-02-27 06:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mario E 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, he's worried about something, something is on his mind, it may be work, finances, or other problems. The BEST thing you can do is tell him you love him and that your always here for him, them leave him alone and let him be by himself. As soon as he's worked it out, he'll come running back open arms to you. The WORST thing you can do is to pursue him and be near him, ask him whats wrong, etc..to understand how men think, read 'men are from mars, women are from venus',, it will help you understand him.
2007-02-27 08:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by fast eddie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
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Have a nice day
2014-09-11 04:33:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure how old he is but, men in there 60's still have sex. If he is middle aged he might be cheating on you or he could be swinging the opposite direction!
2007-02-27 06:55:44 · answer #4 · answered by chris h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to cast any aspersions but he might be getting it from someone else.
He could also be Bisexual and is starting to lean more towards men.
He could be having some "personal health" issues down below and is afraid to talk to you about it (or see a doctor).
You may want to go to get some marriage counseling,
2007-02-27 06:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
See a Dr.
You'll never get an answer from the people here. Especially with the little bit of info you provided.
There could be a medical reason which NO ONE here will be able to diagnose.
There could be a psychological reason.... which NO ONE here will be able to diagnose.
2007-02-27 06:26:19 · answer #6 · answered by TLG 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old is he? If he is old maybe he can't get it up and is embarrassed or maybe he just doesn't have the energy. If he's still young then he might be getting it somewhere else.
2007-02-27 06:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Make an appointment for him to get a physical. So the Doctor can help solve the problem.
Diabetes is one thing that can cause this problem and it lasts forever. Maybe he should have his blood sugar tested.
Google diabetes and see if any of the symptoms look familiar.
Good Luck.
2007-02-27 07:34:50 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My hubby's,the same way.Send your husband to the Doc., Health and stress will cause lack of sex.
2007-02-27 06:37:12 · answer #9 · answered by Linda 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As in todays world women's health is focoused but men are left aside as they are potrayed as dominant..........it's a world issue but as in your case i think it is up to you .......dont know what i mean........talk first to him ask wether he suffers some pain during intercourse and if you feel bugged tell your desire in an indirect mannerand if he is still persistent about his no sex mood consult a sexologist.....in fact tell him that sex is only workout that benifits the organs as during the ejaculation the heart reduces its effort and your harmones are also improved........happy night
2007-02-27 06:31:37 · answer #10 · answered by Shreyas S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋