His parents died a year ago. His family was talking about putting up a "shrine/musuem" at their old house, LITERALLY. He didn't ask me what I though about anything. I just kept turning around and seeing my mother-in-law's stuff in the kitchen, doors, etc. After not speaking to him, avoiding the kitchen for days. "What a few pictures bother you?" I left our bed for the couch. Then he added a chair! When I talked to him and asked if he lived alone, "I didn't think it would bother you." I finally took all that down. But it had me wondering if he was going to put on a dress and wig and slash me in the shower.
2007-02-27 05:52:24 · 3 answers · asked by so tired 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, that WAS his next step. But you were too quick for him and I highly recommend you stay that way!! Oh, and by the way, when you married him you ALSO married his whole family. Unless you want a WAR!! Good Luck!! @8-)
2007-02-27 05:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by Dovey 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For clarity, you are married and your husband put up a lot of your mother's things in your house. How many things exactly and why does he think it is just a few pictures? Do you always agree on decorating? Do you ever make decisions without him? Does he have an unhealthy obsession about his parent's death?
2007-02-27 05:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by ciao_gina 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Um yeah that's a bit much. My husbands' parents have both passed and of coarse I want him to have things around that keep his mom close to him but he also understands that it's our home not his mom's shrine.
2007-02-27 06:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by littlemama_rules 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋