Well I recently moved in with my aunt and her husband. (They also have a very attractive roomate). They are all in their mid 30's (I'm 17). Well, I love spending a lot of time with him as opposed to my aunt and my little cousin. He is a very funny and has expressed a particular interest in me, which I don't mind at all. But I don't know if my interest is purely sexual or if it's more than that. Either would be fine with me, though. When he walks in the room I feel happy and my heart skips a beat...
2007-02-27 05:47:35 · 17 answers · asked by terabytemaniac 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it is perfectly normal for a young girl to fall in love with a older man, and most girls want to "marry" their dad when they get older because he was the only man in their life. most grow up marrying someone just like their dad. but to say that you actually want to be with someone who is related to you? your uncle? no way, those are just your hormones talking. you need to keep all of that to yourself. you need to go and find yourself someone who is not related to you
2007-02-27 06:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by baby_girl_25 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Look for the sake of everyone do not even go down this road. You are looking at a lot of heartbreak, anger, hate and drama if you go down this road. It is even not worth all this. Leave it alone and move on in your life pursuing someone who is not a relative.
2007-02-27 13:53:30 · answer #2 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah. Don't confuse your intense love for your uncle with romantic feelings. You can love someone but not think sexually of him. He is your uncle and you should put those thoughts out of your mind. Your asking for a world of trouble thinking thoughts like that.
2007-02-27 13:52:22 · answer #3 · answered by AmandaHugNKiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to refrain from doing anything with him. You could get kicked out of the house and ostracized from your aunt and uncle.
2007-02-27 15:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so funny that you wrote this because the same thing happened to me when I was 17 yrs - We should chat. Email me.
2007-02-27 13:53:28 · answer #5 · answered by Leesa K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened to me with my aunt,not blood related,it turn out just great,she landed up leaving my uncle who was kindda a jerk,,we hook up n have been seeing each other since
2007-02-27 15:02:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OHhhhhhhhh my Lord....please dont.....Just dont even go there.....Its soo wrong on soo many levels..you will be betraying ur aunt..and you are too young 4 him ...and how do you know he only wants you for sex???????
I wouldnt never even entertain that thought if I was you..You might regret it later..
2007-02-27 13:53:25 · answer #7 · answered by bebekaychic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhhh oh no... you need to find another place to live.. those arent good feelings u have.... why do u want to hurt ur aunt? why would u want ur uncle to go to jail...why do u want to break up their marriage theres a child involved... omg ur a child... a troubled child... seek therapy fast....
2007-02-27 14:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to be infatuated with someone older. But, because it's your uncle, it's best to just keep things to yourself.
2007-02-27 13:51:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you plan to continue having a place to live...keep yourself in control
2007-02-27 14:06:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋