My ex, with whom I was living before we "broke up" wants us to have a physical reationship, and says the reason he suggested I move out was because things were... well, weird. What should I do?
2007-02-27 05:19:12 · 14 answers · asked by liebedich85 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok, maybe I should have added a little more detail... we have known eachother for about 5 years (havent dated that long) and are friends. I feel no emotional attachment for him anymore what-so-ever. And the sex is really good... really really good... I dont know!
2007-02-27 05:46:51 · update #1
Let me see if I understand you correctly.
This guy still wants sex with you but doesn't want the responsibility of a relationship?
And you are asking what you should do?
I think the answer is pretty obvious... don't you?
If your daughter were coming to you and asking you for advice on this situation, what you tell her?
2007-02-27 05:28:59 · answer #1 · answered by David P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you continue a physical relationship with your ex, it can not and will not stop there. Old feelings are sure to come up and new feelings may develope. You have to ask yourself why the relationship ended and if you want to chance going thru the same thing again.
2007-02-27 13:31:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to hit the road. He's only using you for your body and nothing more. Don't put yourself in a situation where you're going to get used and hurt. You're better than that. Many blessings.
2007-02-27 13:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have feelings too... you can't just sit around waiting for him to want you... what happens if you get a new boyfriend...? would that guy understand...? the answer is probably not... most guys want their girlfriend all to them... and to not share them with some guy who just wants them for sex... you need to respect yourself above all other people... hope this helps you some...
2007-02-27 13:29:53 · answer #4 · answered by damiens_mommy_05 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HARD TO SAY WHAT WEIRD IS INSINUATING BUT BY THE SOUNDS HE JUST WANTS SOMEONE TO HAVE SEX WITH AND NO ATTACHMENT TOO. YOU DESERVE MUCH MORE THAN THAT AS DOES ANYONE...
2007-02-27 13:28:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So your ex wants to come around and have casual sex with you whenever he wants. If you like that idea can I come around for casual sex as well. (that was sarcasm)
Tell him get lost what are you his on call whore.
2007-02-27 13:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by Lou 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Buy him a big ol' case of lotion and tell him to have a nice life.
What an ******.
2007-02-27 13:25:29 · answer #7 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say if it's over let it be over!Do you want to go down that road again?
2007-02-27 13:23:10 · answer #8 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He see you as a vagina...a body part.
Don't you feel the love and respect?
2007-02-27 13:22:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else. You deserve better than a booty call.
2007-02-27 13:24:59 · answer #10 · answered by passionatemilf 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋