yesterday was so agonizing the girl im all crazy about is finally with her boyfriend (some punk who barely knows her). my mom forgot about me so i had to walk two miles to my aunts to use a phone. and my best friend in the whole wide world is out of town. im bummed out she hasnt written to me in a week. luv songs make me sick. sorry im so emo or watever it is that you chose to label me. we spent today ignoring each other. everything is so ugly when im on my own
2007-02-27 05:16:16 · 12 answers · asked by Scream Your Secrets 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I felt like everything was just so depressing when I had to be alone. My husband is in the air force and he had to be gone for months. I realized that with that time to myself, I had just that-time to get to know myself better and I realized that I am a very strong person and I can deal with pretty much anything. We don't need people to be happy. You are happy if you want to be. You suffer because of the way you react to things. People don't make you suffer. So get yourself doing things. Get some hobbies. Being alone is great! Take advantage of the time. Who knows, while you're out doing things you like, you can maybe meet someone who shares your interest!
2007-02-27 05:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by luvmrtnz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you take time to look at all the things that are going right, you might not feel so miserable.
If you're not with that girl, then she apparently doesn't have those sort of feelings for you. Would you rather be with her in a relationship that's a lie? At least you know how she feels and can move on. Surely there are other girls who interest you?
Try to be more active, too. Instead of moping at home, watching tv or fiddling at the computer, take the dog for a walk, hook up with a friend-doesn't have to be a best friend. Any company is better than none.
It gets easier with time, but meanwhile, stop focusing on the negatives.
2007-02-27 05:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by Happy Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not your fault that you are unhappy. Things happen that are sometimes very very upsetting, but you'll pull through and do well. Being unhappy sometimes doesn't make you emo, and doesn't make you a bad person. We all have our bad days/weeks/months. Your best friend will come home eventually, and it's too bad about that girl you're crazy about, but maybe things will work out. There is always something bigger planned than what you see at the moment. Keep hope! :-)
2007-02-27 05:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by eastbaywhatsername 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life a bummer when people treat you like you don't exist but it's good to be emo I get angry and then I write a mean poem about life sucking. You can be just as unhappy as you want. Then snap out of it and flip the script and act like she doesn't exist
2007-02-27 05:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you make your problems worse with your attitude. i say talk to this girl. be bold and break out of that pattern. tell her that you think the guy doesnt deserve her and that you really like her. and do some things to get your mood up! stay away from sad slow songs and dont stay alone for long periods of time when you can reflect about your problems. good luck hope you feel better!
2007-02-27 05:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you have to change and be a punk instead of an emo,, anyway punk was the original stuff. lol, all i can say s yess you need to go out more,or readd more or get into an activity that amkes you feel good
2007-02-27 05:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by carla s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you just had a bad day. You will be alright. Just try to focus on the positive stuff in your life. Good luck and I hope today is better for you.
2007-02-27 05:23:24 · answer #7 · answered by Peace2All 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it probably seems like the end of the world but believe me this problems are nothing compare to the ones you will come across later on in life. don't make mole hills into mountains, just be happy you are alive and well.
2007-02-27 05:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by fallen_angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not your fault if your are unhappy look dont worry about it move on with your life and you will be ok
2007-02-27 05:31:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesse?
It's Mom...I'm sorry.
2007-02-27 05:19:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋