what happens the first time you have sex?(do you bleed??)?

Question

well i have a bf and were planning to have sex and im scared that i might bleeeeeed..
and what happens after do you feel sore ??or what?
does it hurt?please answer im desperate........

Answer 1

well you bleed only if you are on your period and if your pregnate and no you wont be sore you will want more sex and more sex untill you cant handle it anymore.

Answer 2

The truth is that it will hurt. Just make sure that he goes slow and steady so that you can become more used to it. Tell him if you are in too much pain and if it becomes so painful then just stop. If you use tampons then most of your hymen should be broken, but there is still a chance that some of it is left and you might bleed. There is always a little blood when you have sex for the first time because your vagina gets little lacerations. It is completely normal. He probably won't even notice a little blood.

USE A CONDOM. That's all I have to say. If you aren't on the pill use a condom. If you are on the pill use a condom. You don't know what kind of STDs he could have even if he tells you he doesn't have any. Be safe, okay? And try to enjoy yourself. The first couple of times you do it won't be so pleasurable but as your body becomes used to it it will feel good.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Just make him be gentle with you. You don't always bleed the first time. And probably it won't hurt near as much as it feels good. And you don't always become sore. Gees, is that what women are forced to think of becauseo f mens insensitivity? Get a good man to do or DONT DO!

Answer 4

if your really sure you want to have sex and he is the right guy and it's the right time it will be awkward. it doesn't matter who you talk to or what they say. it's awkward!! you don't know what your doing your scared. your wondering im i doing this right . what is he thinking. you may bleed, not to much. always wear condoms if he tells you it don't feel right that way he is looking out for himself not you. sore? depends everyone is different i wasn't sore but i thought i was walking funny afterwards!! ha,ha bow legged. i wasn't. everyone is different so i cant tell you if it will hurt if it does hurt it's not like uncontrollable pain. and tell him to go slow until he is in,and your comfortable with the speed he goes. remember you can always say stop at any time!! good luck.

Answer 5

I hope you plan it right and don´t get pregnant or an STD. And Yes it hurts like hell and you might bleed a bit. Consult a gynecologist or a responsible adult to help you choose the correct birth control method, it is obvious that you don´t know much about this subject, get informed before you start planning things that could affect the rest of your life.

Answer 6

first of all its all depending on your age i have made a mistake and lost my virginity with out really thinking about what would happen after wards i didnt bleed nor was i sore but i also lost it to someone very small in that area when i had sex with my ex bf i bleed and was sore it all depends but you need to make sure you use all protection possible birth control and condoms you dont want to get pregnant but if you have to ask what to expect you mite want to wait i wish i would have

Answer 7

yes. you usually bleed but not always. and yes it will hurt just a little but make sure you tell him to be gentle because its your first time. and you will be sore for a day or two. It is worth it though!! promise!!

Answer 8

yes you bleed and you hurt a one to two days after but it is worth it

Answer 9

dont have sex unless you are on birth control... you'll get diseases or pregnant!! it Does hurt, and you Do bleed