I'm at a relatives house and constantly see suspicious activity of all creed going and coming, I have a toddler with me and guys are all married from all walks of life. These are professionals ( I live in an apartment), where this girl is doing whatever and these husbands are going home as though nothing happened. Mind you this is most of the time during the regular work day from what I've seen. what do you do?
2007-02-27 04:07:59 · 32 answers · asked by Diva 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It depends. If she is doing it to where it could put children in the neighborhood in harms way, then maybe confront her about it and just let her know that she is making it really obvious and it is not appreciated. If she isn't bothering anybody, then let her do what she wants, she has to make a living. I understand where you are coming from and why you may be concerned but what others do is truley none of our business unless in interferes with our lives.
2007-02-27 04:33:59 · answer #1 · answered by wildrose4784 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I'd mind my own business.
If the lady is hooking, at least she's making a living and not getting state aid!!
We can't stop poor married men or better off professional married men from getting it on the side. we can only hope the wives find out and take em for eveything they can.
WHY not put the address on your question and maybe you'll be cutting down on the professionals visiting next door! :-0 And maybe a few wives will see it too and check it out.
But leave the hooker alone. She's only trying to make a living.
2007-02-27 04:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing your side of it makes you feel like calling in on her, but the other thing to do would be asking her if she wouldn't mind getting another location for her clients for her sake before someone else notices what's going on and reports it as something it may not be. This way she will think of you as possible concerned person rather than a busy body.
2007-02-27 04:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it bothered me that much, I'd probably approach the landlord or the rental company. Tell them about your suspicions. Like you, I'd sympathsize with the poor wives who haven't any idea as to where their husbands have been. Do you know this neighbor?? Does she have a husband?? If it's really bothering you, say something to her directly. Tell her that you don't appreciate your children being exposed to this kind of nonsense. In the end, if no one wants to listen, I'd think about moving to a nicer neighborhood. I'd worry more that there might be drugs and not just sex....
2007-02-27 04:13:45 · answer #4 · answered by luv2teech2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you could prove that she's a hooker, there is nothing you can do. What if she was a swinger and saw guys for no money.. there is no law against that. If you know for a fact that she charges money for sex and is using that apartment as a brothel, your hands are tied.
I am sure you don't want to upset a person like that, either!
2007-02-27 04:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait so it's your relatives house and shes the one doing it?
If its just a neighbor you really can't prove that she is prostituating herself...
I mean you could always call the police and say there is suspicious activity all day long and then let them deal with it.
2007-02-27 04:13:56 · answer #6 · answered by colie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look there isnt anything to report do you have proof or just a suspision? Get a life its none of your business what the neighbour does, obviously your from a small town GET A DAMN LIFE its not necessary to spy and gossip on your neighbours - OH and btw youre the one whos breaking the law by spying
2007-02-27 04:12:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its actually none of your business. As long as they aren't interfering with your life, and you going about your daily routine, why would you honestly care?
Honestly, how do you know whats going on in there? It might be that she has a legitimate home based business going on, and they have a legitimate reason for all their comings and goings.
And...if you were taking care of your own business rather than worrying about whats going on with hers, you'd never noticed.
2007-02-27 04:15:50 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Report it to the superintendent of the building or the police. It should be looked into since prostitution encourages other illegal behavior.
Good luck.
2007-02-27 04:36:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your husband isn't going over there then you have nothing to worry about. It shouldn't bother you what she does with her life as long as she keep you out of it.
2007-02-27 04:12:50 · answer #10 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋