I am 30 weeks pregnant & I had to temporarily quit having intercourse until my next appt. Well, I am wanting to know some things I can do to keep my husband happy. I am already keeping him satisfified (BJ's). I just wanted to know if there are certain things I could do to just drive him wild & make me totally irresistible to him. I just want to suprise him w/ some new things that will blow his mind.
2007-02-27 04:07:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am wanting to do these things. He is not asking me to in any sort of way. I just like to keep my husband happy & I know I have mine coming to me. He still keeps me completely satisfied. So you women who are dogging me about wanting to keep him happy, I don't need your answers.
2007-02-27 04:25:27 · update #1
Continue pleasuring him the way you are, except do it in places he doesn't suspect. Such as, while your watcing tv in the living room on the couch, or perhaps even some wheres in public. He's bound to want to return the favor ten-fold once the baby is born.
Start looking for baby sitters now. :)
2007-02-27 04:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by danny_is_cool1986 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
ok...
Get three bandannas or scarves. Ask him to sit naked in the middle of the bed, facing any direction. Tell him to face forward, and approach him from behind with at least two bandannas in hand. Lay one down and fold the other into about a 2" strip. Place it over his eyes and tie it in the back of his head. Tie it a second time in a square knot.
Next, cross his wrists behind him. Drape the second bandanna over the crossed wrists. Bring the front piece down and then behind, cross the fabric behind the wrists and turn 90 degrees, then bring the ends to the front again, tying them off. It should be like tying a ribbon on a present. You want it firm but not tight. Now place a pillow behind him and lay him back on it. His arms and shoulders should be on the pillow, but his wrists will be in a gap (without his weight pressing on them).
You're not done yet. Now you bring his feet up and cross his lower legs beneath him, close to his pecker. Your final bandanna is used here to tie his calves together. You want this good and tight. Your man should be very exposed and very erect. You should straddle him in a 69 position, but don't give him constant access to you with his mouth.
Use your mouth and hands on his pecker and balls. You can even explore his rear end with a finger or toy. Have a towel handy and use lots of lube. If you have long nails you should wear a latex glove. Have fun playing with him (you won't hear a peep of complaint from him no matter what you try unless it's from tugging his skin too tight) but don't let him come. If he is getting close, back off and let his mouth have some fun. Don't be surprised if he starts begging.
Good luck!
2007-02-27 12:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about...
Ask him!!
And by the way...
You are a Goddess! Marriage is about giving and when you give when it is the most inconvenient or uncomfortable, then it is a true gift! I respect and admire your attitude towards your husband and your marriage. Good for you, good girl!!! I just don't have enough nice things to say about you.
I would also like to commend all of the other women who answered this question enthusiastically, and point out how angry all those others were... hmmmm speaks volumes, doesn't it?
2007-02-27 12:22:48 · answer #3 · answered by David P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try learning some Tantric techniques. That way you can use your hands more, and be able to connect with him more, visually. Because you can't make eye contact when your doing the BJ.
Intimacy by suprise is always good too.
Like drawing a nice hot bath for you to share, with some truffles and sparkling cider- don't forget the candles.
Anything that is a little more romantic than your average interactions.
2007-02-27 12:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by Bearess 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing better for that than a skilled BJ, and you sound like you have that covered. Try playing with yourself in front of him before or during the BJ to really drive him wild.
2007-02-27 12:13:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
God... I love you... lol
You know... that's exactly how to keep a man happy... to all you other people... good luck having a happy man...their either depressed or gay for crying out loud... Men need sex or a nice BJ... we need it... I'm with this other guy above... Good Girl!!!! what a lucky guy... I'm sure you make him very happy... in return... I'm sure he makes you very happy... I would be bringing home flowers every day if I was married to you...
God a good women is hard to find now a days.
2007-02-27 12:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by David 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The bj's should be enough to keep him satisfied for now. I hope he is taking good care of you at this point, with lots of massages.
2007-02-27 12:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well a WOMEN now that takes care of her MAN
He's a lucky one at that. You need not do more you have it right. Most women would complain that after a whole day they don't have 15 minutes for there husband because they are tired, or pregnant, or whatever because its always something.
Hope he's a MAN that takes care of his WOMEN.
Enjoy your baby and family!
2007-02-27 12:17:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
4 ways to please a man, according to Dave Chapelle.
1. Suck his dick.
2. Lick his balls.
3. Make him a sandwich.
4. Don't talk so much.
Seriously though, you are already on the right track. I'd ask him if there's anything he wants. THAT will blow his mind. (Anal???)
Also, there is nothing preventing you from "doing it". It is generally safe to have sex during pregnancy. Your hubby may even be very aroused at the idea.
2007-02-27 12:14:38 · answer #9 · answered by Sam Fisher 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you are lactating, the pheromones in the milk can make him more sensitive and harder so he will have better orgasms. Let him lick or suck at your nipples first, and do the BJs slowly. That ought to help. Congratulations on having a baby. Good Luck.
2007-02-27 12:15:23 · answer #10 · answered by Dutch 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋