How to become a real lady?

Question

with good mannners, dressed with elegance and etc.

Answer 1

sit up straight, never cross your legs, legs together when sitting, one sip at a time. cut all your food. do not chew with your mouth open, dont talk and chew. say please and thank you. step out the car, swinging your body toward the door feet together, step out and straighten up. belch or sneeze in your hanky. never nod your head. clothes must always be clean, ironed and put togther, no panty lines, bra showings. hair stays cleaned and brushed. and last but not least ALWAYS CLEAN FINGERNAILS!!!

Answer 2

well be your best mannered and speak with elegence. at the table put a napkin on your lap, keep your elbows off the table. If u must leave the table say may i be exscused. When u speak, know what u are going to say, don't constatly use the words and or like. Dress proper and don't show too much skin. Always keep a positive additude. Don't ask why a dude knows all this.

Answer 3

It may sound really really really cheesy, but the best etiquette book I've ever read (trust me, I've read a lot) was Princess Lessons by Meg Cabot (A Princess Diaries book). It's super self-explanitory.

There are a lot of different things to consider when it comes to etiquette. Good manners are different in different situations. Good manners in dinners are different from good manners in conversation are different from good manners in self-defense. Dressing with elegance means different things for different people.
To give you a proper answer would take books and books and books worth of information. The best I can do for you is recommend some websites that you can visit and do some research on your own! :-)
Below are websites to Emily Post, the most famous etiquette queen. Though much of her etiquette was written in the 1920s, very little of it is outdated, and can often be applied in today's society.
Good luck! :-)

Answer 4

This is not 1865....real ladies are not belles with flowy dresses and lemonade. Women have to work, etc. If you want ot be a reallady, be a woman with morals, intelligence, and your own opinion. Do not worry about elegance...BLAH!

Answer 5

You could check with a modeling / talent agency. They often have courses on etiquette, how to choose classy outfits, how to properly apply makeup, the correct way to sit and get out of cars, etc. There's alot to it. But the best way to be a true lady is to treat everyone, regardless of class level, with equal respect. People are remembered for their actions and not their possessions.

Answer 6

read about etiquette for different occasions.
social, weddings, business, dinner, etc.
Start with your manners at the table ( very important in social and business settings) and your vocabulary . A more elegant choice of words give you more credibility and eliminating slang from your vocabulary always helps!

Good luck !

Answer 7

I love this quote I heard a few years ago.

Act as though you already are what you want to become.

this is a good place to start.

Answer 8

Try reading Emily Posts guide to Manners, and emulating what you read

Answer 9

Well keep your back straight, keep conversation short (peaple dont like very long answers or comments). Also wear what you like to wear, and also wear the color that suits you. or just wear your fave color. smile alot, or when peaple ask you questions. And always stay on topic.

hope it helps~

Answer 10

The essence of a real lady is that she always thinks of OTHERS first.