I'm 28 and i'm in a relationship with the same girl for 4 years. We are now both working abroad for about 2 years now and already talking about marriage. But i'm unsure if it will work out because we will be again separated for two years after marriage. Also i want to again be with her and rekindle our love. But she might get the wrong signal. Should i wait?
2007-02-27 03:58:25 · 10 answers · asked by arnold l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you have any doubts, definitely do not do it. You should be 100% sure before entering into a commitment like that. My husband and I dated for over 8 years and it took that long for us both to know we wanted to be together for life. Marriage is a big step and a completely different world from dating. Everything changes and you find out things you didn't know about him/her before and you have to accept it. Marriage is a lot of work, but definitely worth it. My husband and I will be celebrating our 5th anniversary this year and we couldn't be happier. Best of luck!!
2007-02-27 04:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by BamaBelle810 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are wanting to presue other things right now instead of a marriage that would require you two to be seperated then I don't think you should marry. A marriage is hard enough without adding the aspect of speration to the mix. I think you should talk with her about the way you feel. Let her know that you will be willing to marry her in whatever time frame you have, but I don't think you should marry her until you can be with her. It just would be to hard.
2007-02-27 12:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by Jewells 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you cannot wait. You cannot expect her to wait for you two years without a commitment. You may lose her. If you know that she is the one, make a commitment now and wait the two years, or let go and move on.
Good luck
2007-02-27 12:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not sure, then dot get married. its a lifetime commitment and sholdnt be taken lightly like so many people do. some get married like they change their underware!! it doesnt sound too much like your in love if you feel you need to rekindle it, so you should wait.
2007-02-27 12:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by Awesome Rockin Mom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wait & see what happens over the next two years
2007-02-27 12:04:08 · answer #5 · answered by purpleflare79 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's the rush? If there aren't children involved, there's no reason to get married.
2007-02-27 12:08:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should wait, get ur act together persue whatever is that ur persuing then get married.
don't get into a long-distance marriage.
2007-02-27 12:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by invalidalpha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her with a distant then you should marry her
2007-02-27 12:58:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anil P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-02-27 12:02:11 · answer #9 · answered by salemgirl1972 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are never sure and it is never the right time. You just do or you don't.
2007-02-27 12:01:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋