I have noone but Josh and without him Im lost. But noone in my family will take me in. I just want to be with him!!!!!
2007-02-27 03:57:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
She might mean she doesn't want u bringing home your boyfriends to be alone with them. Parents tend to be protective of there kids and even straight kids get told not to bring home to be alone with there boy/girlfriends that way. She's just trying to protect u.
Hope this is the right answer if not good luck with all of your endevors in the future.
U can still be u away from the home so don't panic just yet.
2007-02-27 04:05:03 · answer #1 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Don't move out, you will mess up your life. Finish high school, go to college first. All she said was not to be gay in her house, so don't bring your boyfriend around. Once you have gone to college and you have a good career and a good job or a business of your own, then you can afford to be gay in front of her. Don't miss out on the chance for a good education, and the support of your parents because you want a life at 16. I know it seems cruel, but just wait until you are out of the house, otherwise everything will be a mess.
2007-02-27 05:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by The One and Only 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you CHOSE no one over Josh in your life.
Now you have a choice of your family...or some guy named Josh.
I would suggest you respect her wishes as the one that raised you and provides food and shelter for you.
Or you can repay her by moving out at 16 to be with the guy named Josh.
My advice is the same as any kid that gets a taste of sex and now cannot think about anything but them. Lovers come and go...but family is forever.
2007-02-27 04:35:57 · answer #3 · answered by Papa Mac DaddyJoe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't let this relationship ruin things with your mom. She will come around and begin to understand how you feel if you talk to her and have patience. Just respect what she says about not bringing your bf to the house and you two can still be together other ways. It's not cause to move out of your house.
I hate to say this, but you never know...things just might not work out with the two of you and someone else will come along. You're only 16 and you'll have many relationships. Respect your mom and you'll deserve the same respect in return.
2007-02-27 04:14:01 · answer #4 · answered by ☺SDgurl☺ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 09:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by lubin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just follow her rules under her roof. Having a bf is okay but full blown sex isn't (you're 16 for goodness sake) and, if she isn't comfortable with your having your bf around - then get used to it.
I like what YGL said, if this has all happened today, let the dust settle. She may think (or hope) that you're going through a phase. You want to be adult and respectful of her enough to show that you're not.
2007-02-27 04:14:32 · answer #6 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you have the option, you should move out. You can legally live on your own at that age, and your parents cannot force you to come home.
But you also need to consider the burden of supporting yourself [food, clothing, shelter, utilities, personal expenses, etc] while continuing to pursue your educational and vocational goals. When you look at that side of the equation, it may surprise you to learn how dependent you are upon your parents for support. If they are paying for ALL your needs and wants, then it is reasonable for them to have some expectations and limits for YOU. A temper tantrum would only serve to PROVE that you are not old enough to make such a decision.
There are organizations you can contact [toll free] and people you can consult [right in your area] that may be able to work as advocates and offer advice to both you AND your parents concerning your gay diversities - and needs.
2007-02-27 04:20:41 · answer #7 · answered by J Andy A 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You're under 18, I don't think she can legally kick you out, no matter how she feels about you're being gay. And I doubt that she can physically throw you out. Likely she'll cool down after she's had time to adjust to the reality of your being gay and realizes that you're still her son. This is one time your church might be able to help, if you belong to one--maybe you could have the minister talk to her. I hope someone else here can come up with some practical advice for you. All I can offer is a prayer for your safekeeping.
2007-02-27 04:07:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
The best thing you can do is not over-react. Instead of crying, arguing, threatening, just try to have a serious talk with your mother about it. If she won't hear it just be calm and patient, keep trying to talk with her. Eventually she should see that your feelings are legit and she will want her child to be happy. You should not have to be apart from your friend but it'd be best to keep it kinda not so visible to her for now.
2007-02-27 04:23:08 · answer #9 · answered by bleak_kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to get a part time job stay in school and save until your 18 and move time will go by fasy a talk to Josh but not so that your mom will know easier sadi than done I know
2007-02-27 04:08:26 · answer #10 · answered by butterfly 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋