I dont really know why but i get REALLY upset (to the point of crying, then depression, then anger) when I think about my boyfriend being with any other woman-mostly the women hes already been with. He has "been with" five other women, 4 out of the 5 were whores( or what i would define them as). Two times he has slept with them on the first date-when he barely even knew them. It makes me sick to think that the guy i love has been with ho's, esp when i lost my virginity to him (3 months into dating). Like I waited for someone special, and i didnt find out about his past until after the fact. I know there is nothing he or I can do about it now, but it still bothers me so much. I tried talking to him once, but he got mad and even made me more upset by saying he slept with them bc they were "sexy" (ive seen pictures....NOT sexy) and he said never regrets anything hes done.i just need to know how i can get over this.we have been going out more than a yr but i still get sick over it pls help
2007-02-27 03:37:12 · 3 answers · asked by HlpMePlz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i feel the same way about my boyfriend. well ex- now. i realized that his past will always be a part of him, and that's something i don't want our child exposed to. he's used women, he's hung around with gangs, he's had wild sex parties all things that i couldn't have imagined doing and things i really find disgusting. I try not to hold it against him but it literally makes me sick to my stomach. I say if you find that you will not be able to deal with it and he doesn't want to talk about it then it's going to hurt your relationship tremendously. if it bothers you that much i say take time away to think and see if you really love him enough to forget about how bad his past makes your skin wanna crawl. i decided it wasn't for me bcus i know that he's still partly who he was when he was doing those things... and i don't want to be around them or to have my daughter grow up and be exposed to that or those girls. so i gave it up. good luck.
2007-03-01 17:31:49 · answer #1 · answered by LoveLeighe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat with you. It's soooo sickening when I think of that. I'd suggest moving on. I know it hurts but it's the right thing to do in the long run. Good luck.
2007-03-02 00:49:51 · answer #2 · answered by Jie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this ain't your guy - find another or seek help
2007-02-28 23:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by B N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋