should a person who has a habit of breaking up, should they just let it go?
2007-02-27 03:26:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Some people feel that they should be in a relationship -- constantly seeking "the one." A person who has a "habit" of breaking up needs to re-evaluate their reasons for breaking up. To become part of a healthy relationship a person A) needs to be ready to be in a relationship, B) needs to know what they need/want from a relationship, and C) needs to evaluate how they themselves operate in a relationship (and need to correct from past experience if necessary).
Habitually entering into relationships to just break them off is very hard on the "man." It is not fair to the man, nor is it fair to the woman who keeps fooling herself that she is ready to enter into a relationship. If she can't step up and realize what a relationship needs to be for her, she needs to stop hurting people.
2007-02-27 03:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by stargazergirl1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most people would be hesitant on this decision because it's the kinda question you'd ask yourself if you were with someone and move on to someone else and ect. It matters on how you see things - mainly the break up. If it they're short relationships isn't that hooking up rather than dating someone? And if they're a few weeks in, then I'm not sure. I've been told before - and always stuck with me - that if you should love yourself before you like/love anyone else. That way you'll feel so much more comfortable around whoever you're dating. I think you should work on yourself before you rush into a relationship so quickly and figure out what you KNOW you want more than what you THINK you want. Hope this helps.
2007-02-27 11:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by Ahmad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure...go out and have a good time...just don't get into a relationship if thats not where your head is right now.
2007-02-27 11:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by Erinyes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
handcuff them to the door, that will keep them. if you want to stay alone then stop otherwise there is no law that says you have to gve it up
2007-02-27 11:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If at first you don't suceed try, try and try again! Thats my motto! lmao
2007-02-27 11:34:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! THEY'RE JUST TORTURING THEMSELVES AND THE HELPLESS MEN THEY ARE ATTACKING. EMOTIONS SHOULD NOT BE PLAYED WITH.
2007-02-27 11:29:44 · answer #6 · answered by jean d 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋