Hi guys i just want to share you my plans and what do you think about it... I work as IT Support Consultant in I-Café Business Operation, here in our place..you know guys our salary here is very little as you know here in our country philippines. I plan to work abroad in order to triple my current salary but i have an problem about my family only 2 of us left me and my mother but she opposed on me to work abroad she want me to stay here on our place but i want to work in abroad for our own good and i want to make our living to be good..best..if only i am rich im not going anywhere but in order for us to lift up from this poverty i have to left her in our place....what do you think guys should i do?
2007-02-27 02:56:06 · 5 answers · asked by tengoy 1 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
If you're going to be making a lot of money then bring your mother with you. Talk to her and figure out her side of the argument. It's hard to make a life changing decision if you don't know both ends of the spectrum.
2007-02-27 03:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by stephenhawkingsdad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should let your mom stand in the way. If this is a goal that you really want to reach then you should try your best to reach it. I had a similiar problem when I was starting college. It was just me and my mom and she wanted for me to stay near but I couldnt stand her so I chose a college that was not too far... but far enough where I had to dorm. Its hard to say no if you love your mom but it might help her and you in the long run. During my college days, my mom found a bf who is now her husband and they leave me alone haha... I think for you to move for better pay will be beneficial for your financial needs as well as building experience... who knows? Maybe after you move you will come across an even better opprotunity and then you can show your prove to your mom that your choice was a great one. good luck!
2007-02-27 11:08:49 · answer #2 · answered by japzkyootipie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep this in mind: It doesn't matter where you live or how you make, the bills are going to coincide with the money. In others words - the more you make the more it takes to live. I would suggest to get in touch with others like yourself who have left and find out what they gave up and what they gained.
have you ever heard the grass is always greener on the other side? When you get to the other side you find it was actually greener on the other side. :) good luck life changes are hard and you should really carefully research before you make such a move.
2007-02-27 11:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by Just Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always hard to leave mom and the familiar home, but to overcome
poverty and put a little comfort and pleasure in your life is asking
so little. Go for it, go out and seek your fortunes
2007-02-27 11:06:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a grown man. Your mother has no say in what you do anymore. Leave, and send her some money occasionally.
2007-02-27 10:59:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋