I am a 35 year old mom and my 16 year old son is a 10th grader. He had his winter sports program from his high school sitting on the desk in his bedroom. I was looking at it since he is a wrestler and wanted to see his picture. When I turned the page, it was stuck together. I then finally ripped the pages after trying and it was a picture of the schools cheerleaders. Now, my son walked in and saw me and then ran away from embarrassment. He hasnt said a word in 2 days. Do you think he did something wrong? I never assumed the pages were stuck for a reason. I dont believe he would do tha
2007-02-27 02:51:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
ur not a mother!!!!!!!! why do you lie? you have asked another question and have said that ur a 32 year old GUY>.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
what is the point of asking these questions? get a grip of urself u might get lost in ur own lies and never find ur self.. Ur TRUE self
2007-02-27 05:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by behmen_muh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His reaction doesn't stem from this one incident. You,or someone else in the house, must have done something similar in the past but he feels that this is the ultimate invasion of privacy. Recall, if you can, what took place previously, how serious it was, and what you did, if anything, to assure him that it wouldn't occur again. He feels betrayed that it has happened again and the healing process won't happen with pizza and wings. This is a very difficult, fragile age for all teenagers and emotional wounds don't heal easily. Don't let it go though, he needs answers, love, and re-assurance now.
2007-02-27 03:48:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You asked this question 4 times.
2. Your past record of questions proves this to be a call for attention. Grow up.
3. You're a 35 year old mom named Ed????!!?!?!! Who likes to look at young girls butts at the mall and gets erections at the Dr's office?
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2007-02-27 04:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i think that u crossed the line im a teen and i would think that it invading my privacy but what i thikn that u should do and i think will help some is go to him and be happy that he was on the cheerleading team and ask why he didnt tell you about cheerleading but while you are doing this act happy that he was doing it. then you should say i wish you would have told me because i would have love to come and watch you...because i loved cheerleadeing when i was growing pu and tell him its not anything to be embaressed about because at my school there is 4 guys on the team
2007-02-27 03:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course, he has done nothing wrong, but you have invaded his privacy and private space. Sit down with him and explain you didn't mean to do so, apologize, and then together set boundaries for privacy between you. He is old enough now to have a private space for himself. Good luck.
Chow!!
2007-02-27 03:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by No one 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you don' cross da line...you should've asked him for da pictures instead of just goin' in his room to get them...he is a teen boy and he don't want his ma-ma lookin' or findin' things that wasn't supposed to be found....
2007-02-27 10:51:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must have a crush on one of the cheerleaders!! he's 16, he's not doing anything wrong, just normal!!!
2007-02-27 02:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by Jen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-03-01 05:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋