All of us sometimes get bored in relationships or let the little things about your partner bother you. Sometimes it comes out in disrespectful ways. After being together awhile does some disrespect creep in every marriage? What do you do to intentionally disrespect your husband and what is the main reason why you disrespect him?
2007-02-27 02:48:19 · 24 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When a poor decision has been made that involved a very bad result for both him and his family, I can see that happening. Also, when a decision has been made by him and executied and wife was not consulted and in the end everything turns out bad, yes, I can see that happening.
2007-02-27 02:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by Pinolera 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends upon what the person thinks is disrespect.. It is diffrent with everyone. In my case with my Husband I have been married going on 4 years this June. I love my husband completely but he has a tendency to be stupid and end up making me mad.
I think that most disrespect comes from mainly being disrespected 1st and it's the whole eye for an eye thing. For instance.. I guess you could say I disrespect my husband..but that is because he had done to me 1st by doing something such as lieing to me.
Like I said it all depends upon your definition of disrespect. I love my husband and I respect that he goes to work and brings home the money to support our family but I am not going to let him walk all over me. Even though he works a 40hr week. I still expect him to come home and help me with the house stuff...he doesn't have alot of chores to do..it is mostly taking out the garbage. I do everything else.
Mostly it is just helping me with our son and such. We don't live back in the old times where the wives stayed home and did everything while the husbands worked out in the field. Most men want their wifes to stay at home and still do everything..The only diffrence is men don't work as hard as they did centuries ago so why should women do it?
If my husband got up before sunrise everyday and went and done physical labor..such as plowing a field behind a mule all day..then I would do everything in the house but I am not going to do it when he sits at a machine all day and presses 2 buttons to weild 2 parts together.
Sorry..isn't going to happen.
:)
2007-02-27 11:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by Roe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 15 years now and we have been together 17 years.And at no point have I ever intentionally disrespected my husband.Not during a fight or at any other time.He is a good man and I respect him.I do not believe that someone can honestly love someone and show them disrespect.Has far has I am concerned the two go hand and hand.
2007-02-27 16:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he does selfish things - going out ice fishing by himself and not taking one of the boys with him. That costs us money and I get no relief. When you get married, you are creating a family and sometimes, sorry to say, you might not get to do what you want. I don't disrespect him in words, but I do lose respect for him and feel like I'm the mom sometimes and I have 3 kids.
2007-02-27 10:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by mel m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have done this at times when i am grumpy and not in such a good mood but it is wrong and i should not do or act this way towards him at all. I need to ask for his forgiveness when i do this. We as women should never disresepect our husbands. We should honor and admonish them and lift them up. The only way we should ever not honor them is if they are abusing or asking us to do something that is wrong or criminal or sinful to do. I try to never disrespect my husband intentionally but if i do
disrespect him like i said i apologize to him and ask him to
please forgive me for it.
Respect goes both ways in marriage. Also ladies it is wrong to even talk bad about your husband to anyone else at all especially to your friends and or family members as well. If you have a problem with your husband or marriage talk to your husband about it. Cutting him down to others and bad mouthing him is very disrespectful to do to him and does not honor him at all.
2007-02-27 11:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, I don't understand...
Why would you EVER intentionally disrespect the person YOU chose to be your partner?
I couldn't do that, I married a woman that I respect too much to ever consider doing that to. And I know she would NEVER ever consider doing that to me.
Ultimately it only looks bad on you...
Why would you ever chose to be in a relationship where respect wasn't paramount? Why would you do that to yourselves?
I don't mean to be sarcastic, but I really don't understand... I would rather stick a gun in my mouth than say a bad word about wife! The thought of it makes me sick!
2007-02-27 11:10:09 · answer #6 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think I've evern intentionally disrespected my husband. But we both disrepect other at times of very heated arguments, but then we apologize because realize this is not the right way to argue and when he does it to me, I don't hold him responsible because I realize it's not intentional.
2007-02-27 10:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My last marriage was just awful. There was no respect from him so, I got to the point where I just stopped talking and listening to him and I made it a point to let him know I was ignoring him.
Respect is a two way street. If you don't get it, how can you give it in return? Just doesn't make any sense at all.
2007-02-27 10:53:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only time I disrespect my husband is when I am angry. Even then I don't do it often, but there have been times when I was angry things I shouldn't have said came out of my mouth.
2007-02-27 10:51:17 · answer #9 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've showed disrespect in my words after I have found out he lies!
He doesn't deserve respect when he doesn't show it when he lies.
He can be a good man alot of times though, but for somereason, I can't let the good times, out weigh the bad, because the bad hurt.
2007-02-27 10:52:07 · answer #10 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋