2007-02-27 02:44:56 · 8 answers · asked by marie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have to open your eyes and ears and pay closer attention to your partners actions.
Check history on the computer, check cell phones, watch his behavior. IF your in a sexuual relationship, he'll either be wanting it alot less or alot more than usual.
Try saying your leaving town for a few days, rent a car, buy a wig and follow his moves.
NOW the question is: What's going to be your next move once you find out IF he is cheating?
2007-02-27 02:55:40 · answer #1 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the little stuff. Does your partner have a cell phone? If so, try and get access to his cell phone bill and or records. Look for numbers you do not recognize, start calling and find out who's on the other end. People are creatures are habit. Look for the changes...... Things like better grooming if you have been with him for a long time. If your partner begins to have weak excuses as to why he or she does not come home, try and ask his or her friends to match stories. If things do not match up, your partner is busted. If your really serious about this, try a private investigator, they live for the stuff. Good luck and happy hunting.
2007-02-27 13:01:41 · answer #2 · answered by "the Otter" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They seem to be distant and they may seem to "disappear" off the face of the earth for a while.
They may behave differently during sex such as not being able to look you in the eye during the act or they may want it less.
They hide their cell phone or seem nervous when talking to someone on it or they get upset if you look at it.
They will abruptly stop when on the computer typing something should you come by.
These are little things you can pick up on that will let you know basically if they're "hiding something" from you then that's usually it.
2007-02-27 10:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by sprydle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When communication starts to break down is a sure sign.
When you enter a room and he or she is on the phone then suddenly he/she has to hang up.
When too much time is spent on the computer.
When the sex dries up.
When he/she spends too much time away from home.
Just a few examples that suggest there's extra-marital activities going on.
2007-02-27 10:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rely on what some one told you- check out the information for yourself, I would probably go after him until I was sure of the unfaithfulness. Or if you don't want to do it by yourself hire a private investigator - they'll do the work for you.
Luck to you.
2007-02-27 10:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when communication start to slow down than normal, or when the other person starts to lie alot.
2007-02-27 10:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by commonSense 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
follow him
2007-03-02 21:10:24 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you heard it..from your close friends i dont think you really need actually proof..
2007-02-27 10:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by moonstar 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋