Okay, so I just found out I am pregnant. I am kinda freakin out, but excited too. When I told my fiance, he was okay with it ... not exactly happy, but just okay. But this morning, he started yelling at me saying I am not thinking about what I am gonna do (as far as when the baby comes).. and how it's gonna effect my life.. But my point is, he is angry, and taking it out on me. I know he has a lot of stress on his shoulders right now, but why is he freaking out on me. I do too. Has anyone else had a similar problem?
2007-02-27 02:36:06 · 5 answers · asked by lovepink317537 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my best friend of 10 years went through the same thing when she was pregnant with her son her boyfriend then husband now was loosing it, with him he was just scared worried about all the things that needed to get done before the baby arrived he has doubts just like you but he like most men takes it out his feelings on the person clostest to him in which case you. just talk to him tell him that the baby is going to affect every one not just you. and just plan move into a bigger place if you have to. save money things like that to show him that everthing will be okay
2007-02-27 02:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened with my husband,they freak out because they dont expect to have big responcesibility sooner.they well come around.especialy when you serve them well at this time.when the baby start kicking in your tommy let him feel it .and tell him more often i wish our baby look like you hundsome .and if he keep yelling tell him nice ly oh! dad our baby doesnt like when you are yelling you get old earlyerthen showered him kiss
2007-02-27 10:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by minjong k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bringing a mirical into the world shouldn't be a problem.
Your both at fault for not practicing birth control.
It sounds to me that the BF is seeing some things in you that a mother to be shouldn't and should be doing.
Think about it!!
2007-02-27 10:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is problem scared talk to him but when the baby comes thing will change he will see this little bundle of joy and his life will seem happy er with this child in it
2007-02-27 10:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by pjlisa13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out before he kills you.........
2007-03-03 06:33:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋