I've got a friend...:)?

Question

I've got a friend, a really good one, and yesterday she told me that she thinks she's in love with me.(Im still in shock:D). she explained that she loves spending time with me, and that she cant see her future life without me by her side, that she doesnt feel that good with anyone but me. so she said all those verry falttering things as guys tell u when they want to go out with u, but what was different, she said that it;s not about sex(she's never had a girlfriend), that its not even an issue, that she simply loves me as a person, for who I am.
and u know how rare it is to hear sth like this and i must admit that I feel soo good with her and I obviously love her although I've never thought about being a couple. so I dunno. I dont think Im gay but the vision of spending my old years with her is lookig really good to me.
so I dunno. help:)
thx

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Answer 1

Talk to her, she may not have meant that she wanted a relationship with you, but merely wanted u to know how she felt.
the best thing you can do is have a proper chat with her, tell her how u feel and let her tell you how she feels bout what u've said.

Love have very many different meanings, but if u both feel the same and want to start something, good on you both.
Don't let anyone tell u anything different, finding someone to love u in the same way u love them is very rare and u should try to hold on to it.

GOOD LUCK WITH WHATEVER YOU DECIDE TO DO.XX

Answer 2

I think you should give the relationship a try. No promises to be made just an open and honest exploration of what could be something really beautiful between you two. I just hope you don;t end up hating each other if it doesn't work out, so maybe best to discuss that first. Yep it's a shock to be told that by a best friend but consider the courage it took for her to say these things to you. She must mean it, to take that sort of chance on a friendship, so take your time, be honest and open with each other and let things take their natural course. I wish you two all the luck in the world.

Answer 3

I dunno. I'm not gonna try and influence you or anything. All I can say is I hope it works out for you both. Whether you become very close, life-long friends, or it developes into something totally different, I'm sure it will work out for the best.

To me, it sounds like you've found a truly perfect friend. Now, do you spend the rest of your lives together as companions, or lovers? I don't know, but I would really like to hear what you decide. Remember, it takes just as much love and effort to keep a friendship strong as it would a marriage, so even if you two don't date each other, you'll still be just as close.

Answer 4

Having someone in love with you is always wonderful. It´s good for your self steam. It might be only a phase. Maybe you just believe that you love each other in more than a friendly way, but in the end you will realize that it´s not really like this. If I was you I´ll keep my friendship and see what happens. If a guy invite you out, go and see how you feel. If this girl invites you out, act in the same way. After sometime, you will probably feel the best way to go.

Answer 5

Test the waters. Let her into your life more. Share a flat, just as friends to start, and see how things go. It is a two way street for
both. If there are things that pop up and can't be mended you two
can just go seperate directions. Be grateful for having had an opportunity to love someone early in life..

Answer 6

Hey, I really appreciate ur friends courage to come up to u and say how she feels for u not all have that courage. I want to say the same thing that she had told u to my girl friend but I dont think I can ever tell her. I really love my girl friend and dies for her attention and to talk to her but I am really suffering, I dont think she feels the same for me. And the end of my story is going to be that I will be silently suffering. I show her that I am friend to her.
I dont have the courage to tell her that I love her and I want her to be with me whole my life.

I really thank u behalf of ur frnd.
Thanks a lot for understanding her and accepting still her. May God bless u!

Accept her love only if u can continue with her bcoz later if u find a boy friend and if wants to dump her I bet she cant bear it.
Good luck!

Answer 7

If you are both young, it seems that you are inexperienced with love and relationships. Many people confuse love with friendship. You love eachother as best friends. Your hormones are raging and potentially sending mixed messages. You may have no idea what a love relationship truly is. You both have feelings about eachother, but I think you are misinterpreting what they mean due to a lack of experience with teh real thing. Good Luck

Answer 8

I've got a great idea why dont you bring your friend over to my house lets make a Jerry Sandwich!!! Oh yeah I'll be in the middle lets have some fun and find out it you like being with a woman at the same time. If not well ...

Answer 9

your really lucky to have such a good friend. My best friend is a bloke and i love him to bits, eventhough he would probably feel funny if i told him. he is like a brother to me and i worry loads about him. I see me getting old with him and there is nothing sexual to the relationship. When you get older you'll be grateful to have a good friend as there isnt many nice people about.

Answer 10

How old are you? You sound quite young. Enjoy your friendship without thinking too much about the future.