2007-02-27 02:35:08 · 5 answers · asked by tekia1516 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am extremely happy with my husband, even though we have very different personalities, views on life, and ways of dealing with adversity...we know that we completely love each other and have the common belief that we can survive anything that life throws at us if we work together and remember how much love we have.
All marriages have problems and all marriages have struggles and times when the "in love" feeling isn't strong. BUT, if you are in marriage for the right reasons and you understand the tides of love, then you can find contentment and happiness even in the face of adversity.
Our happiness and ability to overcome is due to some very simple ground rules.
#1 We do not raise our voices to each other, if we cannot talk calmly we wait until we've calmed down.
#2 There is NEVER any name calling
#3 We listen to each other and make a conscious effort to put the other persons need b4 our own, a biblical rule that enables the other to feel loved unconditionally.
#4 We never bring up the past in any argument, we stay only in the moment and look to the future.
Happiness is possible with the right frame of mind and with the belief that this time of trial will not last forever. If you look ahead and are positive you can make it through.
Good Luck and God Bless
2007-02-27 03:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by brookebjpl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very happy with my husband and we've had our share of problems. If you work on your relationship with anyone, friends, husband, lover, etc., you will find that the problems become more and more infrequent as time goes by.
2007-02-27 10:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by mark my words 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very happy in my relationship, altough I live in Poland and he lives in Canada. We are on the phone a lot, Internat, emails, letters.. We see each other twice a year... But we are very happy together..... The biggest problem is jealousy but we trust each other.. its very imoprtant......
2007-02-27 11:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am, if you are happy then try and work through the problems.
2007-02-27 10:39:25 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am You can always work around the problims.. Never go to sleep mad at eachother.. number one key
2007-02-27 10:44:41 · answer #5 · answered by twistedinlime 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋