is it good for a girl to marry someone younger?

Answer 1

age should not be a factor with love

also I find older women more attractive because you can have a better conversation with them and most of the time they know how the world works and how a man should treat a women I say go for it if it makes you happy regardless of what people say they are just jealous

Answer 2

It depends on how much younger. If the age difference is enough that she is the "provider" (financially, maturity etc) then it's probably not a good idea.

Feminists don't like to hear this but we are all connected to basic instincts. We would like to think that we have intellectualized ourselves beyond the basic needs of our ancient ancestors but the truth is the we are still the same creatures. And while we may learn to cope with situations, that gut instinct is still there.

Very often older women who marry younger men begin to resent them for not taking a more masculine roll.

Now before all of you Gloria Allreds out there jump on me, I didn't say a dominant role, I said a masculine roll.... there is a difference, look it up.

Women want marry MEN. They want their men to be strong, respectable, to be able to provide, to protect. That is a basic instinct. If the woman assumes the roll as leader, in emasculates the man on a basic level, and they both know it.

Women also mature faster than men. If she is 25 and he is 21 then I think there are going to be problems because she is looking at the time in her life to settle down and start a family... he has just learned how to buy his own beer. If the they have both reached their mature years, like say their 30's and the difference is only a couple of years, then I doubt there would be any problems.

Answer 3

Depends on the woman's age and the man's age and how much of an age-difference is involved. If she's 30 and he's 20...maybe she really wants to be a babysitter or a mother. If she's 37 and he's 32...not as big of a deal. If she's 55 and he's 50...nothing much to worry about there. The younger in age the man, the more immaturity (possibly) that the woman will have to deal with...like competing with PlayStation for attention. It's personal preference, the woman's maturity, the man's maturity...personally, I already have a son and don't want another one, and I'm way too hard to handle for a kid anyhow. What ages are you talking about?

Answer 4

Yes it is good for a girl to marry someone younger there is no rules saying that a girl can't marry someone.


age is nothing to do with love

Answer 5

Depends. EVERY woman I know who married a younger guy when the guy was 25 or less - it worked out badly. Essentially, they were not in the same place in life - she wanted to settle down and make a family, he wasn't finished growing up.
IF they are both older (i.e she's 40, he's 35) or something, it should be OK.

Answer 6

Depends on the ages. If the girl is 25 and the guy is younger, I'd say no. But, if the girl is 30 and the guy is 25, then it doesn't matter. It ultimately depends onthe maturity level of the both of them.

Answer 7

it depends on how much younger, a few years are fine, but anything over 6 or 7 there might be problems

Answer 8

why not there is nothing wrong with marry someone younger. everyone has there own growth in life some are faster then other.

Answer 9

It depends on how young. I assume you are talking legal age. With that assumption I don't think age realy matters as long as it is not a creepy age difference. Like you are old enough to be his mom or anything like that.

Answer 10

Age doesn't truly matter later in life. It only really matters until about 30 (of the youngest party).