First of all we have been friends for 12 years. But the past couple of months she has hurt me. first she started a rumor about me that could have gotten me in trouble with the law. then she lied to me about another girl several times. Im sick of this. then she went to my mom and told her i was hangin out with the wrong people and was runnin her mouth about my boyfriend.. who she knows NOTHING about.. please help me.. ive gave her 2 chances to fix things.. and im sick of her crap..
2007-02-27 02:24:47 · 16 answers · asked by tennis_angel126 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sounds like my best friend. i had to dump her too unfortunately. she became someone i couldnt be around...so i told her...i will always be there if she needs me, but that i wasnt going to be around much anymore. it was really hard on me, because i loved her WHOLE family. and i knew as soon as i said that to her, seh was going to get dramatic, and hate me. but i was prepared for that.
you dont need her in your life. let her know.
2007-02-27 02:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she went to your mom because you are hanging with the wrong folks...she is a true friend and is trying to stop you from making a big mistake. If there is no truth to your hanging with the wrong crowd, fabricating a story and starting a rumor about you etc...Just be up front and forward with her. Tell her that while the two of you have had a good friendship for 12 years that you are unhappy with the path this friendship has taken and think it best that you end the relationship. Be specific with her about her shortcomings so she has no question about it!
2007-02-27 02:55:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Truthfully there is no way to "break up" with a friend. But if you feel the friendship is no longer something you want, you need to talk directly to this person and state your feelings. Ask her not to have anything more to do with you, no phone calls to your house or cell, no dropping over to see hi. And make sure your family and other friends know that you've taken this action and ask them to politely discourage her from talking about you to them and to support your decision. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-02-27 02:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend for nine years and all of a sudden it got icky... she seemed to be more work than she was worth. I decided that a friendship that was more work than my marriage was not worth it so I broke up too. I just stopped contact and she got the hint. So far the only close friend that I can see lasting a lifetime is my husband.
2007-02-27 02:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly i dont think of you are able to end the friendship, yet you definately shouldnt date the recent buddy. Thats like interior the hand e book of friendship. You dont date your friends' ex. in case you probably did that, then this would be an entire distinctive tale. yous hould tell your previous buddy, hi hear, i cant in basic terms kick that individual out of my existence and identity by no skill do it to you the two so please admire my friendship with so and so. And if he cant settle for that, according to danger hes not even that super of a chum. attempt your desirable to a technique or the different save the two between the chums, it sucks in case you are able to lose one in each and every of them, yet whilst it happens, so be it. good good fortune!
2016-10-16 21:25:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it's ok if this person is causing you any kinda of turmoil then u should let them go you dont want anyhting negative around you in this day in age anyway. she is most likely jealous of something you have accomplished lately and whats you to suffer i had a friend like that once. you should really sit her down and talk to her like an adult put if she raises her voice or anything like that let her have it and p.s make sure you warn your another friends about the situation because she might make them turn on you
2007-02-27 02:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by tture_513 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop her, just because you were friends as kids, doesn't mean you are a good fit now. As you get older people change or rather start to show their true colors as the time passes, this will not be the last time this happens, drop her.
2007-02-27 02:30:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl, here is the truth
if you have worned her once , twice , or three times hten this is it she wants to be your friend no more , she droped first and you gave her time , it doesn't matter if u are friends for 12 years she petrayed u , and u got to be strong drop her for good
find your self friends to care and fear for you
good luck
2007-02-27 02:41:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't sound like a good Friend..... yes it's ok to brake up with a freind as long as they are not treating you right you should pull her aside and tell her you don't want to be Friends but tell her nicely and tell her the reason or reasons why.good luck
2007-02-27 02:38:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should immediately break up with her lest she should put you in any further trouble. There is no sense in going on any further. she must have got ill will against you. leave her alone,dont even look at her if she incidently meets u. you dont run after her, let her run after u.
2007-02-27 02:31:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋