Basically, my bf and i were together for 4 years, we came to Uni together, and he got really taken up in the whole uni life and dumped me, and i found out he was sleeping with another girl. This really cut me up, i was down for months, then Christmas came and I decided i needed to pick myself up. I met another guy at xmas and we started going out. He's perfect, really sweet and lovely. But 2 weeks ago, I felt so strongly in my heart that i was ment to be back with my ex. So I talked to my ex and we decided we both wanted to give it another shot. so i dumped my bf, and went back to ex, expecting everything to be perfect, but it wasn't. So i explained to my ex that it doesn't feel quite right, and we decided to leave it but hang out and see what happens (we're not together atm) but the 2nd guy is still saying he wants me back. I know he'd treat me better, but i think i'm still in love with my 1st bf, or maybe im just hanging onto memories? I don't know what to do, any advice? Thank you:)
2007-02-27 02:08:22 · 7 answers · asked by Emily 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
u had dated the new guy just to take revenge on ur ex. but he accepted u knowing ur past. u should stick with the new guy, its he who loves u. ur ex needs to learn a lesson in life. u r only helping him get out of his fraud nature, so dump the old guy and carry on with the new person.
2007-02-27 02:23:31 · answer #1 · answered by cawlu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are a little confused and see pros and cons in the both of them.
Try making a list and listing the good and bad about both of them and see what looks better on paper.
You may need some time alone to sort out all of your feelings. But, from what I hear guy #2 sounds like the better choice. It may be something very shallow that attracts you to the first guy that has cheated on you, but be smart and look at the long term.
Hope that helps...
2007-02-27 02:18:57 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Brown Eyez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave your 1st bf for good.If you found out he was cheating on you you should have left him there. If the second guy treats you with respect then he's totally the guy for you.In a few months you won't feel a thing for the other guy.
2007-02-27 02:17:33 · answer #3 · answered by RoseLeeMonster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was sleeping around on you the first time, dont you think he will be this time. Stick to the 2nd guy. You will always have the good memories of the old one
2007-02-27 02:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by kizdrop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im in this situation to.........but now im out of it bc i chose the boyfriend who treated me better.........the second boyfriend bc the first one couldnt make up his mind between either me or this other girl........so my advice to u is dump the first one and go out w/ the second one!!!
2007-02-27 02:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Jayde♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a nunnery!
2007-02-27 02:13:23 · answer #6 · answered by old man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad move he will cheat again it's just a matter of time.
2007-02-27 02:13:20 · answer #7 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋