My male friend said i shouldn't buy my boyfriend stuff as it's his job just to buy me stuff...i think it should be equal really if i see something i'd like my man wearing or wot he would like i'd get it i hope i'm not the only one who does this lol
2007-02-27 01:51:10 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Of course not I think your male friend is just jealous!!! I buy my boyf loads of stuff (he doesnt let me spend a penny wen we go out together so I buy him stuff to balance it out) I think its nice to spoil eachother anyway!
I had a gift certificate for a shoe shop and bought him a pair of trainers with it!!! I EVEN GAVE UP SHOES FOR HIM!!
....it must be love!!
2007-02-27 01:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No your not and it should work both ways if you luv each other, im getting my man a flying lesson for his birthday cos i want it to be a day he will never forget he's so excited about it. My b/f is good to me anything i want i get but he has a better paid job than me but i always save and buy him good things to to show him how much i care about him. You cant take, take, take all the time thats not fair and he will just eventually feel used.
2007-02-27 03:10:18 · answer #2 · answered by suzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. You should treat your significant other with love and respect. Not expect things from the other.
As far as what he wears, I have done that I bought my husband this set of black scrubs (he works as a med nurse at a nursing home) I think he looks HOTTTT in black and he wears those scrubs all the time. Along with a few black collored shirts, a flowered hawaian print shirt, and a few shorts. I think he looks great in this type of clothing and thats what he wears most often! :P I don't see anything wrong with buying your man clothing you think he looks good in. :P I'd say good job!!
Really, Good job! hehe. Have a great day.
PINK ELLIE
2007-02-27 02:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. K 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I love buying things for my boyfriend, and yeah I do spoil him sometimes. But then again, he spoils me too, so it really is a two way thing. Admittedly, he earns a lot more than me, so some of his pressy really are just wow, but he really appreciates the things I get him too, as a lot of thought goes in to all of his treats!
I really think its such a nice gesture to buy things for your boyfriend as it just shows that you do think about his when he's not around!
2007-02-27 02:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by hell_ova_arse 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the person.
Some people in life enjoy giving, and I am one of them!!!
Its not spoiling someone if you enjoy it when you get them something!
My partner doesnt buy much for me at all but thats just the way he is. BUT when he does get something for me its very special and I treasure it.
Dont let anyone tell you buying things for your partner is wrong, you will know what makes you happy and if that is it, then go spend!!
2007-02-27 01:55:47 · answer #5 · answered by xxfliteratixx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls does that. But i dont think it's wise. My girlfriend does that to her boyfriend and since then she's been the only person buying him gifts and he didnt get her anything, not even flowers on valentines day. He ditched her years later for a richer girl.
2007-02-27 01:56:26 · answer #6 · answered by Say what? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it goes both ways. If you've been together for a while then set a budget for how much you want to spend on eachother for bdays and holidays. My husband and I usually stick to the budget, but for example, this year on valentines day. We said...nothing big. Well, I got him a case of beer and a vday card, and he got me a diamond necklace, a dozen roses, a card, and candies... He often surprises me, but I think it should all definitly be a give and take kind of thing. Both should help.
2007-02-27 01:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you are right. Buying something to please him and show him you love him is good and healthy.
Both He and you will get a kick out of it. Its not the man's job to provide or buy for ther woman all the time, it will be a nice surprise for him, you just go ahead.
2007-02-27 01:55:00 · answer #8 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do this... It makes him feel just as good as I feel. It is also so cute to see how he wears everything I buy him because he likes it so much... Makes me feel good and it makes him happy. I don't see a problem with it, just make sure it goes both ways, you don't want it to come out that he was just "using" you for the gifts!
2007-02-27 01:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by desperado 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful doin that tho I spoilt my x n he dumped me. Alot of guy friends told me dats what i did wrong bcoz he had it too easy n good with me. Need to treat em mean keep im keen. I've developed this philosophy wit my new man n he can't get enough of me. Can't understand it but it works x x
2007-02-27 04:06:43 · answer #10 · answered by Dolly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋