How do you do it?

Question

I'm exclusively top, but I want to try being a bottom. There's this someone I like very much. I want to do it with him. His is like 7 or 8, and I'm scared of it. So, how do you do it? Being bottom the first time.

Well, this is the first time as I have said. And, I fully trust the guy (we've necked, and did oral before). It's just that his equipment is a bit big, and I just want to try the other side of the fence. ;P

Answer 1

My preference has always been TOP. Except for one time when I really wanted this gorgeous, blond, lifeguard-type guy. We had played around orally on previous occasions, but I wanted to please him more fully. I WANTED, and was determined to have, him inside me.

So > > > One day I got him hard, had him lay on his back, straddled his thing, and slowly mounted him. This way I was in control, and had the time to become dialated and adjusted to his size. After I had him fully inside me, we were able to change positions without any effort or discomfort. Then, once he assumed the driving position, he gave me the "Ride of a Lifetime". It was GREAT!!!

I still (usually) prefer to be the dom in any encounter, and usually lean toward a relationship with a btm-boi. But keep in mind.. just because your partner is laying UNDER you, does not necessairily define which guy is the top. Top him, and give him YOUR bottom!

Good luck! You should at least TRY the other side of things. Hope you enjoy it as much as I did.

Answer 2

First, of course, use a condom, preferably lubricated. Then used a water-based lube for yourself and take it slowly until you feel comfortable. You may find that 1-2 minutes is all you are ready for the first time - just take it easy so you can get used to it.

Answer 3

Relax and be sure you can trust the dude you're with. Play safe and relax. I'd say lots of lube and then some. Breath too :)

Answer 4

From what I hear... lube will be your bestfriend... and make sure you relax your muscles. Good Luck Sweetie.