years ago when my husband was out of work the csa was told ,he was then back in work and we recieved a letter saying he owed 2,500 pound we fought this amount as we had legal advice and were told they wouldnt pursue it i thought that was the end of it, he still continued to pay the mother voluntary until she decided to try for more via the csa she got 3 pound more ,he carried on paying the money until she left full time education,this morning after several years have passed the csa now say he owes this money as it was suspended at the time i have spoke to them and they say the money stands and if we dont pay £300 pound in 7 days they are sending it to a dept collection they also want £100 every month until its cleared we cant afford this so much has changed we have 2 kids of our own a morgage i just dont know what to do ,i need advice can they do this one minute not pursuing it and years down the line wanting it,i have never begruged him paying his maintance
2007-02-27 00:53:11 · 11 answers · asked by Don N 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm afraid the only thing I can suggest is going to the Citizens Advice Bureau or getting legal advice form a solicitor. It does seem rather weird that they have waited so long to claim the money, but I have a feeling that there is no "statute of limitations" for the CSA, its like Tax Credits, they have the right to claim their money back, even if its unfair, immoral or impossible to pay.
I wish you all the best, and sorry I can't help any more than that.
2007-02-27 01:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by lululaluau 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The formula is not rocket science, 15% for one child, 20% for two. You must know if the correct money is being paid and to allow a debt of £2500 to accrue is just madness, and in effect, stealing from the child for whose upkeep it is meant. At 15% this suggests that somehow you have understaed your income by about £16,500 over the period. After 21 the debt doesn't go away it just stops getting bigger. It is a debt, stop bleating, pay up and move on.
2007-02-27 01:13:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey! I hear ya! My husbands ex filed for child support increase too. She got a judgement 6 mos. later and it was retroactive back to the date that she filed. We were $5000 in debt before we even knew anything about it. Just pay a little each month until it`s paid off. He does owe it and there`s nothing you can do about it. It put us in financial hardship too, but they can`t set the amount you pay every month, as long as you pay something.
2007-02-27 01:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by MISTY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 21:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get straight to the Citizens Advice Bureau and find out
how you stand.
I don't think they can tell you how much you have to pay
each month. If you don't have the money what are you
supposed to do - rob a bank?
2007-02-27 01:11:17 · answer #5 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-24 18:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
question dont make sence your husband owes csa 2500 then that is up to him to pay if you contact csa they not very good at money issues
2007-02-27 01:03:22 · answer #7 · answered by tazz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well they base it on pay here and things still get messed up so I dont know. Will they readjust things in court?
2007-02-27 01:35:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get advice from legal persons
2007-02-27 03:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who owes th emoney him or you? this is rather confusing, anyway if your daughter is 21 i dont see why he should pay maintenance he cannot pay it until she is 50!!!
2007-02-27 00:59:27 · answer #10 · answered by Goldfish" 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋