why teenage marriage break down?

Question

speacefic cause, solution and some example

Answer 1

Basically because teenagers have not yet formed their character completely or do not really realize what they actually want out of life. As years go by, we collect more and more experiences and as we grow we learn more things about ourselves and the things that we like. So a person at his/her 20s is not the same person at his 30s. That is the main reason why teenage marriage break down. even if they do love each other their wants, needs, characters change and are no longer compatible. Another major reason is that often they lack the maturity to realize what it takes for a marriage to work and are not ready to compromise in certain things. a solution can be to give each other enough space to grow byhimself/byherself within the marriage.

Answer 2

Some causes may be emotional immaturity, inexperience with problem solving, lack of knowledge about people and the environment, lack of qualifications for meaningful and gainful employment and unwillingness to remain committed when the committment demands any type of a sacrifice of personal pleasure. Some solutions could be to wait until both partners become more independent, more experienced with managing the problems and challenges of daily living on their own, talking to more mature adults who have experience and can advise them how to handle difficult situations effectively and following that advice and by coming to the conclusion that success in life demands committment to duty and deferred gratification of personal pleasures and desires, at times. For an example, a teenaged couple might wait until both partners have lived independently and alone for at least 2 or 3 years and have handled their own financial, social and educational obligations successfully for that period of time. Another example is a teenage couple listening to the advice of adult counselors or parents who have had a successful marriage and successfully reared children for advice about how to train a difficult child to accept the idea of "bedtime", "nap time" and "play time". Sexual relationships should not be the primary reason for teenage marriages or marriage at any other age. There must be communication and mutual committment to common life values and goals.

Answer 3

The following reasons are not specific to teenage marriages. They apply to ALL marriages, although young people usually lack the emotional maturity to get along.

1) A lack of common interests; things you both enjoy doing TOGETHER as opposed to separate interests and separate groups of friends.

2) A lack of tolerance for each other's differences. As much as you share in common, you're still going to rub one another wrong from time to time. Be mature and deal with it. Separate the small $h!t from the serious stuff.

3) No sense of compromise; so that you can work out your problems with a minimum of emotional trauma. It's marital negotiation.

4) No sense of sympathy and forgiveness. You're both going to screw up on occasion. You need to be able to forgive, forget, and move on with the relationship.

Answer 4

Everyone who gets married young listen to advice on how to be the Wife/Husband, they think that the wife will do the inside jobs and the husband outside......Understand?
We think that this is how we are suposed to live, and then when they question each other, BANG!!!!

You should never -
1. Marry young
2. Marry the first person you go out with
3. Marry the first person you live with

And you should never try to Change some one you go out with, Think about it...You would not have gone out with that person if they were diferent, why change them?

Teenage Marrages might work for some, but not with out heart ache

Answer 5

I wish people would stop judging young married couples. My parents got married at eighteen and are still together, my best friend got married at eighteen and has been with her husband for eight years, and many other people that I know got married young and stayed married. Yes, divorce is high for young married couples but it is just as high for older married couples... people just forget that fact. You can be immature and selfish at eighteen and you can be immature and selfish at 45. Each marriage depends on the commitment and effort of those involved in it. It is not only wrong but hurtful to judge young married couples.

Answer 6

oh come on, teenage marriage is not bad, my teacher was married when she was 18 and she and her husband are still happily married for 18 years.. the decision is from both parties,if they're willing to sacrifice everything for each other then their marriage will last!

Answer 7

They don't know how to handle the ups and the downs of marriage.

Answer 8

teens are usually not mature enough to make that decision, they think they know everything and dont know that much yet. It is usually just a decison that is not made out of heart but whats avaliable then.

Answer 9

because teenagers have no experienced as many relationships as other ppl. so they always wonder is the grass greener for there single friends.

Answer 10

mainly lust, too immature is true from the first individual that said it, and just something to hold onto, they dont' know the true meaning of love, the relationship.