Friend or boyfriend?? plz help!?
ok so i have this one friend at this music school and hi is soooooo cute and were really good friends but since i only see him once a week i dont get to hang out a lot with him..l.th thing is i used to like him but then gave up cause he was really rude but then we became friends and now i dont know whather i should try anything i mean he is so mice to me and follows me a lot but i dont know??
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i asked him next week to if he wanted to hang out and he said mabye???
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20 hours ago
i keep tryingf to really hang with him since we dont very much but he says mabye so i always beg back and this weekend im begging him to hang out with me but...??
2007-02-27 00:03:49 · 12 answers · asked by SOPHIE p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He's just not that into you.
2007-02-27 00:19:25 · answer #1 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First is to ask yourself if you like him. If the answer is yes, work towards making the relationship works. Assumption is the mother of all foul up. Ask him what he thinks of you both developing a relationship and take it from there. If you don't receive a satisfactory answer, move on with your life. Most probably you both are not fated to be together.
2007-02-27 08:09:59 · answer #2 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever beg or he won't respect you. You've asked him enough times to hang out so if he wants to then it's up to him to make the next move.
2007-02-27 08:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by Freddie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see it is not so advisable to beg a guy to hang out with u.see better go and ask him what he meant by that''maybe''?but never ever beg, it is like Ur mad of him &others may think u to be a mad dog.
all the best
2007-02-27 08:18:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My darlin, don't lose your morals . . .
With his answer from your question is
simply NO, he just can't say it straightforwardly.
I'm sure you wouldn't like me saying this, but. . .
I will, so you may become 'somebody smarter'
than what you think.
You have to value yourself, you are special but he trashes
you, , You don't have to beg if he likes you, he's the one
to ask you, not you begging him to hang around with you.
my sweety, be it known that you have that power in you .
to control yourself and act valuable, he follows you
doesn't mean anything.
say who cares. . .there are some more boyz around
.
2007-02-27 08:21:42 · answer #5 · answered by JUSS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, don't beg! If he keeps putting you off, give it up. There are many other guts out there. You sound like you are still pretty young, give it time your mate will show up eventually. Hang in there.
2007-02-27 08:15:03 · answer #6 · answered by nana_bad_ass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y so many hang in n out?straight forward n ask him if he likes or loves u?don't waste time keep on waiting 4 nothing.ok?no begging to disgrace urself.
2007-02-27 08:12:52 · answer #7 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound that you have a very strong feeling on him and if he follows you alot his got the feeling too,why not phone him when you do not see each other much or talk and see him in the net
in that way at least your talking to each other
2007-02-27 08:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont bring yourself to the level of begging, that isnt love or liking that is just sickning
2007-02-27 08:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by sackman95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just be friends. remember he said maybe. maybe is not exactally a yes. "maybe" real (not superficial) feelings will develop over time.
2007-02-27 08:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by maria92588 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start looking for sings that he likes you,and he he's too shy make the first move!
2007-02-27 08:10:03 · answer #11 · answered by theravenhairedvampire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋