i have 2 boys ages 6 &8. my exhubby has custody, i gave him custody due to better financial stability (when i had custody it was 50/50 custody which means no child support &his family would have nothing to do w/ me & my family works which meant i had no help & couldnt afford child care) my ex refused to help me with childcare even tho he was able. as soon as i signed them over he began keeping them from me, our divorce stated i had "reasonable and liberal" visitation which means when he wants me 2 see em. since then ive gone 2 court & got all my visits set im happy w/that but hes now extremely alienating them from me more so my 6yrold , every other wk im spekin w/ social wrkrs due to fals allegations & hes told 6 y old im the step mom &smom is real mom, it took 7 mos to cler this up w/son but now hes continuosly putting me down &my home &so is his family what can i do? i tried to go thru ss & they say they cnt make em put kids in couns. its killin me to see kids go thru this! help!
2007-02-26 23:44:07 · 6 answers · asked by somerandomchick 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
It is really sad that people have to be like that I deal with that problem everyday with the men that live here , it is just a control issue that is more common then you think out of 75 % of the men living here they all pay child support and its always do to the cause of the ex having another person in their life putting that negitive influence in their minds because they do not want to deal with " baggage" so they rather assume the"MOTHER ROLE "instead of dealing with past relationships . it happens with men all the time. all I can say to you is be strong and if your doing things that makes you unfit to have your children change it, it can be a long process, but in the mean time dont bad mouth him to the kids when you have them , make your time with them count and keep the negitivity out of it , why should the kids suffer since the bigger kids cant get along
2007-02-27 07:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by sackman95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is commonplace the otherway around. Women do this crap to men all the time. Think of this as women finally getting a taste of thier own medicine.
2007-02-27 08:12:52 · answer #2 · answered by dr_tom_cruise_md 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he keeps lying to the kids and keeping them from you and you've already gone to everyone that you can then there's nothing that you can do. And one day your children are going to find out the truth and it will end up hurting him in the end and not you.
2007-02-27 07:52:22 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to Family court to get Scheduled Visitations.............
it sucks but if they keep filing False accusations... t'll come back to Bite him... not you........
2007-02-27 07:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by mdlbldrmatt135 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your hubby go to helly.
its hot hot hot vally.........
2007-02-27 07:48:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋