ok i dont know what category to put this in. But something has been bothering me for awhile... Ive had sex with a total of 4ppl in my life... But i havent been able to climax ever, ive never even been close... I dont know what the deal is...it has to be me, I cant even do it by myself :S... but i cant tell my bf that, it will just hurt him, and hed think that it was him... help?
2007-02-26 23:01:39 · 6 answers · asked by So Confused 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Relax.You are "normal". Take time (and don't expect it to happen quickly) to figure how to make yourself climax. Practice and THEN you'll be able to communicate to your lover what you like and what gets you there. Just relax about it. Tell your lover that you feel really good when you have sex with him and leave it at that. It takes some people a lot of time to let themselves climax. It will be fine, you'll see. It's not a race. Don't expect to be able to acheive this until YOU make it happen with you.
2007-02-26 23:13:00 · answer #1 · answered by yepitsme22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all in the mind girl. U must be in the mood for it. When u don't feel the passion it won't come no matter what length of time it takes for ur bf or any male party to come.
Also the male party must be proactive in love making before sex. He should be doing pre-sex moves to get u in the mood and thrill. I was told that ectasy will aid u but i don't encourage it. I believe in a natural thing.
2007-02-27 07:12:56 · answer #2 · answered by Nick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, sex without Love is like a gun without a bullet. And love is something which seperates us from other animals. Even lizards have sex with multiple partners just like you. What's the big difference??
So, let's forget about what you did in the past, start a new life, find the one who's really in love with you and cares for you, and dedicate your life to him. You'll be a good person for sure.
2007-02-27 07:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by Gina K Cash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your not reaching a climax, because you not in the right position for you. Try riding through the whole session, with close body contact the whole time.
Good Luck.
2007-02-27 07:08:50 · answer #4 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of women have this problem I have read that about 80 percent of women can not reach orgasm by sex alone.try oral sex if your bf is willing and see how that works for you.there is nothing wrong with you,you just haven't found what works for you,but you will.
2007-02-27 11:46:50 · answer #5 · answered by leoslady3900 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its bothering you - you need to talk to your bf. - you could try some sex aids, vibrators etc.
2007-02-27 07:06:32 · answer #6 · answered by cool321steve 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋