but you realistically can't? How do you deal with that?
2007-02-26 22:41:50 · 12 answers · asked by ŋoir 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
yeah, but nobody can do so... You know, there are times when people must think about their own happiness instead of dealing with problems that would shadow it. And that doesn't really mean that they are deserting their friends, happiness can be contagious, you know... just like smiles :)
2007-02-27 08:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Pavic♫ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I always wanted to be there for someone espercially a cousin whom I love so much but whenever I see her I can't look look through her eyes to even talk to her. Once when she was sad, i got so disturbed and didn't know what to do, therefore since i couldn't console her right before her i wrote some few words of consolation and encouragement on a piece of paper and placed it at a place where she along could find it and YES it did work out coz i did see a broad smile on her face which gave me a hint that she did read my message and that alone made me very happy that day.
2007-02-27 07:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. U dont always have to be there physically if u cant. The most important factor is emotional support. Maybe be der through texts or phone calls, or even emails. Be that listening ear, comfort him/her in any way possible. They'll be able to feel ur sincerity and be glad they have someone to count on :)
2007-02-27 06:48:27 · answer #3 · answered by Shobha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just everyone that I love...I finally realized that God will have to deal with all of them as He is dealing with me....so now I am here for Him, my daughter, and myself....and I am doing my best to send encouraging words to the others that I love.....that's all I can really do :)
2007-02-27 07:15:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are going to do what they have decided to do. I try to offer insight when asked or not asked but in the whole reality of things I can't be everything to everybody.
2007-02-27 06:50:55 · answer #5 · answered by sideways 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On rare occasions I've thought of how many questions I'd miss when I'm not around. The more important questions, I mean.
2007-02-27 06:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by Benvenuto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, about 2 years ago my dad was sick and i couldn't be with him,so i cried till i fell to sleep it was really hard to deal with
2007-02-27 07:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by aroura . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd let someone else deal
2007-02-27 06:45:13 · answer #8 · answered by Boofie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I relate to this...and at one time I was....but it became exhausting....I have to come first now or I cannot help anyone.
2007-02-27 06:45:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No... I want to be here for myself, that's quite enough.
2007-02-27 06:44:52 · answer #10 · answered by Nikkers 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋