ok look my best friend since i can remember seems a li off i thik hes hurting inside when he walks and talks he looks at ground and he wont look anyone in da face he asks 4 permisiond to sit wit me when it should be agiven dat of course he can sit here i know ppl have hurt him but 2 wat extent i fear hes afraid 2 let go 4 some reason and i know its bad cause last week we had a small party jus 5 ppl and he was party animal drunk and yea he dance a lil dat was a lot of him there cuz he never dances in public but he was stll holding back we are r close so i dont know why not but at the begging of da semester his friend of 12 yrs just carried him infront of the entire collge i was ther i know he was hurting but he also dosent trust ppl he told someone and private secreat and they told da whole sophmore class then he was betraye alot but never b me wat can i do to help him he seems so akwardly hurt not only dat his family dosent care about him it seems im da only one hes got please help
2007-02-26 22:41:01 · 4 answers · asked by blueboy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talk to him, be there for him. If he's hurting and feeling alone at least he has you to help him so do it. Go to someone, a councilor teacher or parent. Tell them that he is in trouble. Things like this might seem minor but it sounds like he's been picked on a lot and that can lead a person to do some very bad things not only to others but to themselves as well.
2007-02-26 22:46:33 · answer #1 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have quite a cross to bare there. The Bible says to bare one another's burdens. but...when it becomes out of your league friend, you must pass the torche. Have you given thought to the possibility that he may be suffering depression or drug/alcohol addiction? If you are in college surely there is someone there you can seek wisdom of how to handle confronting him w/ this question...it is a delicate one. You don't want to be confrontational...esp since you are the only one that seems to care. You are a good friend...Don't know how you were raised...but it would be a good thing for you to ask the Lord to intervene in both your lives together. and give wisdom, peace and most of all Salvation. That is the difference that changes lives....Best of everything friend!
2007-02-27 06:51:25 · answer #2 · answered by diane b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to be mean but y did u ask this question 3 times
2007-02-27 07:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's lost in depression. Get him to see his doctor and keep being a good friend.
2007-02-27 06:44:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋