everybody around you is trying to prove that you are incapable, have done something or the other wrong, are the meanest person on earth and trying to spoil the others life???
I'm feeling like hell right now even though I haven't done anything wrong...I always keep looking for things that I have done wrong or I make them up just because of those people around me i just mentioned. I've forgot how o believe in myself...
What do I do???????????
2007-02-26 20:41:19 · 8 answers · asked by supreety2k 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Think positively. Smile. You are a beautiful capable human being. Say it 100 times a day and believe it.
2007-02-26 20:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i've bin through this phase and i knw its a horrible situation, well all i cud suggest is just try to ignore these comments, every time u hear something like this just keep saying to urself in ur mind you havent done anything wrong , because you really havent, so why should you stress, if you know that you are a good person and that you havent done anything rong that is all that matters, dont waste your time trying to prove to these people that you havent done anything rong and that your a good person, because you wil just be wasting all your time trying to get through to difficult people , as long as you know your not a bad person and you have done nothing rong, then that is all that matters
2007-02-26 20:47:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont determine youself with what others think of you. Be yourself. Trust in good values like honesty, giving the poor/needy, etc ..
The God who created us can tell us how to live. I have felt God's presence. Please do read bible to know more about Him where Jesus came to world to tell about God and His love for us. Tell Him that you want to know Him more, I am sure He is the only God listening, because He listens to me and has answered me sometimes very soon, sometimes when proper time comes.
2007-02-26 20:52:50 · answer #3 · answered by Brinda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel exactly the same way.trust me.you feel like total ****.
but i guess you just have to figure out who are and don't care about what the other person is saying about you.they're only doing it out of their own insecurity.and by giving in,you're showing your insecurity.
next time the person says something to make you feel bad,just walk away.it works.
you know what you are,you don't some insecure ***** to tell you what you are.hang in there.Tc
2007-02-26 20:58:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first uve gotta calm down and relax .... then u must never look for the bad in you or in anyone ... always think of what is good and true ... dont make em up ... everyone has some good in em ... and remind the people of the good in you ... start helpin them ... plus when they dont stop ... botherin you ... try harder ... and if they still dont care ... show them how important you are to them ... that will teach them to respect you ... have fun and God Bless
2007-02-26 20:48:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anx A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore people and keep believing in yourself.
2007-02-26 21:05:13 · answer #6 · answered by SANDI P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask them to support their statements with relevant evidence.
2007-02-26 20:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by Unazaki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To hell with "others". I am "what I think I am". If you are not you, who are you ?
2007-02-26 20:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by Tashi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋