wot do u do if r u really shy? it has made your life miserable and in class at school you cannot even get your work completed because it includes role plays in it..so you have to stand in front of all the class but you cant becuase you r so f u kin shy!
you cant make friends
you cant talk to people and communicate
you cant be outgoing
wot do you do?
2007-02-26 20:35:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Aw ........ that is so sad. I sincerely mean that. I was never shy but my hubby was. He was voted quietest in his senior class and felt like you like he missed out on alot in his life because of it. I don't know if this helps but I'll give you afew tips.
1) Have confidence in yourself. You can be the ugliest person and if you have confidence in yourself people will gravitate to you.
2) Don't wait for people to approach you. Approach them first. Start up a conversation with something you think would be good common ground.
3) Don't be afraid of people. They sense that and it turns them off.
4) Be happy. People love to be around happy people.
Hope this helps alittle. Don't feel bad. We are all your friends here!
2007-02-26 21:08:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was shy in school too. i would almost faint if i had to do an oral report. somehow i got thru it. this will all pass as you get older. just living will make you outgrow being shy.
just know that you are here on this earth for a reason and your not alone.
if its that bad, talk to a counselor. maybe that can help
2007-02-27 05:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by rhonda3826 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get over that ahd challenge yourself
iam suffring from te same thing just like you
but iam tryiong to get over it
first i worked as a language instructor
i had to stand infront of more than 30 man and women
and this was really very helpful
try to be bold and take the lead and challenge yourself
2007-02-27 05:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by khatora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should look in the mirror everyday and say i'm pretty funny and lovely men want to date me and ppl wanna be my friend and hopefully your confidence will grow enough to stop being shy also you need to walk up to someone and say hi my name is and i would like to sit with you at lunch is that ok i'm a bit shy but i hope we can be mates. xxx gd luk
2007-02-27 05:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by rose petals on acid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being shy:)
2007-02-27 05:03:20 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Santa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋