i keep dreaming about my first love. and the dreams wont stop. i havent seen him in almost 7 years. and btw how do i make them stop
2007-02-26 19:58:18 · 6 answers · asked by oneandonlyness 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
thank you i think i finally figured it out, when i was with my first love he was the only man who i knew loved me unconditionally. my husband on the otherhand has left me many times. and the only time i dream about my first love is when im not happy in my marriege.
2007-02-26 21:11:59 · update #1
To me it means not so much him, personally, but what he represents. i.e., love. You have omitted to provide information about your present situation in your love life, which would have been a big help, but if you are in a relationship currently, I would say your subconscious mind is telling you that love is lacking in it, or if not, to start searching for a suitable life partner.
2007-02-26 20:51:54 · answer #1 · answered by CLICKHEREx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most scientific studies regarding dreams and their meanings have concluded that dreams don't mean anything. Best guess is that they are something the brain does to check whether you're ready to wake up.
You'll most likely stop having the dreams when they no longer hold any interest for you. We have many dreams, but only a few that we remember and carry into conscious thought.
Try this - light a candle, put on some soothing music, take a pen and write a long letter to your first love. Tell him everything in your heart, everything that's on your mind, everything that's left unsaid. Then you can burn the letter, keep it, mail it, or even give it to your new love. Dollars to doughnuts, the dreams will end.
2007-02-27 04:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by Epistomolus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ex-Boyfriend
To see an old ex-boyfriend from childhood in your dream, refers to a freer, less encumbered relationship. The dream servers to bring you back to a time where the responsibilities of adulthood (or marriage) didn't interfere with the spontaneity of romance. You need to recapture the excitement, freedom, and vitality of youth that is lacking in your present relationship.
To dream that your ex-boyfriend is giving you advice about your current relationship, suggests that you unconscious is telling you not to repeat the same mistakes that you had made with this ex-boyfriend.
To dream that you are being massaged by your ex-boyfriend, suggests that you need to let go of some of that defensiveness that you have been putting forth. You may have been putting up a wall or armor around you. You need to learn to trust people again.
To dream that you ex-boyfriend gives you a stuffed animal, suggests that you are seeking for reassuring and nurturing aspects of a relationship. This is not to imply that you want you ex-boyfriend back. Alternatively, the dream could represent some immature relationship which may (or may not) describe the relationship you had with your ex.
To dream that you see your ex-boyfriend dressed in a suit at a hospital, suggests that you have come to terms with that relationship and have completed the healing process.
2007-02-27 11:51:26 · answer #3 · answered by Monique S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it means secretly you have not found anyone else like him. So that's why you "keep him" in your dreams.
In your dreams think in your heart that you've already found someone else. Then when you see him tell him that you will let him go to find his true love. For you know that he really does not love you.
You are the maker of your dreams. Change them and good luck. May both your dreams and your life come true.
2007-02-27 04:14:18 · answer #4 · answered by Uncle Remus 54 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
need to find ur self with another relation - be open to the world try to have a new friends & new love
2007-02-27 04:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another love
2007-02-27 04:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋