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serious or sarcasm, your choice... any way. i have not had a partner in a year. i am not gay. but am to the point were i, frankly, hate women. in the other hand, i cannot find it in my heart to use one. when i find myself attracted to one, i get very angry with myself for what i know to be foolishness, and have what appears to be no luck attracting them any ideas on how to overcome this rediculous dilema?

2007-02-26 19:17:44 · 7 answers · asked by ricie 2 in Social Science Psychology

painful memories, lacking trust

2007-02-26 19:32:05 · update #1

7 answers

I can't answer this question until you allude to why you hate women. Rejection? Painful Memories? As much as I hate the psychology bull crap it sometimes is pretty reliable in figuring out why we feel the way we do. The fact that you can't use one is definitely a step in the right direction!


I hate women too. Luckily, I am one, so am still able to hold a relationship.

2007-02-26 19:22:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I doubt if you'll ever be able to attract anyone, let alone a woman while you "hate" women. And how do you hope to get into a relationship - when you are not open to the idea & get angry with yourself for the "foolishness" of being attracted to a woman?

You need to figure out your problems first & then approach relationships & women with openness, respect & joy

2007-02-26 20:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Why do you hate women?
Get to know a woman as a friend. Why do you get angry with them if you are attracted to one? I think you have problems with your self esteem - many people have such low esteem they cannot believe that if someone loves them, there's isn't something wrong. After all, it must be a stupid/unattractive woman who could love someone like me!
Maybe you need councelling. Certainly, I think you need to relax about it all. You're probably giving off far too intensive vibes.
Enjoy your life! Love will follow.
Just read your extra note: betrayal isn't a gender issue - people, regardless of sex, betray their partners. It's a lack of morals, rather than what sex they are.

2007-02-26 19:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0 0

On a serious note, you need to see a psychologist who might be able to help you figure out where your hate comes from. No matter what, that has to be your first step, to overcome that obstacle.

2007-02-26 19:28:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Why do you hate women? Is it because you don't have a girlfriend? If you want to be with a woman then why not do something when you are attracted to one? Why do you have to use her?
Sounds like you just don't want to be happy.

2007-02-26 19:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 1 1

start by not saying boy howdy lol j/k

2007-02-26 19:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by mala 3 · 0 0

Find a sweet girl ♥ :]
They'll take your hand so you don't get lost. :]
Good luck!!

2007-02-26 19:24:48 · answer #7 · answered by genuine♥ 3 · 0 0

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