should i let my wife be with another man? i been her only one and she and wants to is this wrong for us to do

Answer 1

Don't allow it !
marriage is to precise to let go of!

Sex is never what you make of it be it one person or a hundred A vow was made don't let it be destroyed by heat of moment!

Answer 2

If your wife truly loved you, and felt connected to you, was happy in the marriage, she wouldn't even have suggested such a thing. She can fantasize all she wants, but to actually want to do this? First of all, is she serious or just testing you? If she is serious, and really wants your opinion, then NO! It would cause so many problems in your marriage. If she wants to do this, and you say no, how will you no she won't do it behind your back? There is a whole can of worms that are going to be opened up no matter what happens. I suggest changing your sex life. Try to make it more interesting, be more romantic, give her back rubs, rub her gently all over her body, concentrate more on oral sex slowly. Show her what a good lover you can be and then maybe she will realize she is with the only person she needs.

Answer 3

If you did not agree to an open marriage in the first place, no. When you get married you make a vow of fidelity.
That vow is to hold true whether you have never been with anyone or have been with more than one. Once you make the vows that is it.
Think of it this way, how will sleeping with another man benefit your marriage? What good can come of it?

Answer 4

Don't do it cause then she will be confused and will like the other guy and will leave you lonely and in the dark it will always be on your mind that you let her bring another man into bed with you it's the same if you used another women

Answer 5

It depends on a lot of factors -- including how much you'd like the freedom to be with another woman.

That said, I suggest doing it if at all only AFTER you've exhausted other alternatives for talking about and acting on ways to improve your own sex lives, which I gather have grown stale in at least her opinion.

Answer 6

That is unfortunately a choice that only you can make. You need to look within yourself and figure out whether you'd be able to handle seeing her with another man. And even if you are not physically there to see it... you still need to know whether you'll be able to be with her again, knowing that she has been with someone else.

Answer 7

it is wrong, because she will probably fall for him and your marriage will be over with. if she still insists on this, maybe u need to get out of this, as it is going to be so hard to deal with if she falls for him, and leaves u later on. marriage was meant for just two people, a marriage where there is others in it will never work out. someone always gets hurt. sleeping with others always involves getting emotionally attached also so if she wants this chances that she is already emotionally attached are good. get out of it before it breaks your heart. it can't work to your advantage, what is in it for u?

Answer 8

just the fact that she wants to sleep with another man...should be a sign that she is not a good woman. You need to let her do so..but while it is happening...slap her with divorce papers...if my man asked me if he could have sex with another woman...you'll see the bottom of his feet only,,,cause he'll be running real fast.

Answer 9

If you have to ask then there is some doubt in your mind. Unless both of you are totally for it, don't go there. Even if you go through with it, chances are later there will be guilt or jealousy even blame, and this will destroy your marriage.

Answer 10

your wife obviously has no value in marriage.

ask if you can be with another too then. bet she'd flip her bib.

it is WRONG to do that because you cannot take it back after doing it.