I don't really want her to. She is 26, and has never done this before, and is inexperienced. I don't like the idea of her showing her body to strange men... I really care about her, but I don't want anything bad happen to her...What do I do, to talk her out of this crazy idea.???
2007-02-26 17:29:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell her about the lifestyle of the majority of strippers. this is not biased information i am giving you, this comes straight from ex stripper friends of mine. the 1st one i ever knew would accept very little extra money from men and have sex with them. after all, she is already naked, whats a little sex? after that 1st time, it got very easy for her to have sex w/ random men for just a bit of extra cash...GROSS!
on top of the majority of the girls being "dirty" factor, there's the drug factor. how does she think so many of those girls have NO issues w/ taking their clothes off and often "servicing" or further, thos men? drugs. a LOT of coke, tweek (crystalmeth), etc. not mild drugs, hardcore drugs. this is coming from the 2nd stripper girl i met. she told me how desperate she was to get out of that life. it was so hard for her because, yes, the money was good. but she HAD to get out, or wind up like the majority, coked up and selling their body...not a pretty picture, but i would recommend painting it for her. tell her to wait tables! i did that for 3 years (a bar or pub is recommended, thats where the money was for me). i could make up to 500 in one night and i didn't take off an OUNCE of clothing! granted the norm was more like 100-150 a night, but thats about 500-600 tax free a week...add in the pay check and the nights over 150 and i was making MORE than enough to cover bills...
2007-02-26 18:39:37 · answer #1 · answered by crazydaisyodu 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why is it a crazy Idea? Is her body that bad and embarrassing that you do not want her to strip for men? Or is it that you are jealous that she will be stripping for someone else other than you? If she is 26 years old, this means that she is a grown adult and can make sound decisions on her own. If she is inexperienced, so what... dance is a form of expressing your inner self. What you call inexperienced, might be considered beautiful and entertaining to others. Nothing bad will happen to her if she has a strong mind and morals.,
2007-02-27 05:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by Hard Core Dance Poles 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She is your friend or do you love her romantically. She is 26 years old and I am sure she has her mind set. It is dangerous working as a stripper but so are a lot of jobs. inexperience is not a big issue, they will teach her how to do things...
I am saying, she is a grown woman, you can tell her your concerns and worries but its her life and her body and if you have no romantic feelings for her then you should remain her friend as she will need the support.
Your concern is wonderful toward your friend....
2007-02-27 03:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nah, dude. I encourage you to get her out of that stupid idea. You should let her know that since when did she put herself to that low level? All what this is showing is that she's having no self-respect. I believe that women should never lose this value. Is something precious. She can't throw away herself like this, dude. Give her other alternatives for a job. But please get this gal's mind straight. I really encourage you. Good Luck!
2007-02-27 01:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way for you to dissuade her from becoming a stripper is to talk to her,one to one.and that how her decision to become a stripper would change the status of your Good friendship with her,Tell her how low her ambition in life is,and that the strippers are considered to be the least citizen of the society,Pray for her to change her decision and let God help her in changing her decision.
2007-02-27 01:54:32 · answer #5 · answered by arvind_salve2000 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Mention your concerns with her. If you care that much about it, have a nice sit down and get it out in the open.
2007-02-27 01:33:51 · answer #6 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! No woman should ever have to sink that low.
Tell her to find a real job, with your help of course.
Good luck :)
2007-02-27 01:32:44 · answer #7 · answered by jess. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her?? if she really has and idea what kind of dangers shed be putting herself through than show her actual stories that have hapened to women who were strippers and what they went through...that might scare her ...from the idea
2007-02-27 02:43:09 · answer #8 · answered by **PrinCess** 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ofcourse talk to her. Show here the pros and cons and the way you care for here as ur friend
2007-02-27 02:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
then u should have a mature talk with her about this matter also help her get a decent job
2007-02-27 01:36:28 · answer #10 · answered by broderm2k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋