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now her family is saying as we are from different caste there relative are not allowing for marriage,so marriage is not possible my Gf told me that she love me but she cannot marry me as her family is not allowing, but another problem is she is not saying at her home that she too love me and even she want to marry me, she is hiding our love with her family i dont know why, at this moment i thought she will support me but even she is asking me to be a close friend only , forget abt marriage ,but she is sending me message which is for lover,when i asked her why she is sending that message she told me you know me better you can take this message as you like as a lover or friend, she is saying she dont want to amrry but behaving as she love me, now i dont understand what to do
i am unable to understand whether she love me or not
whether she want to marry me or not
if she has any problem then why she is not telling me, atleast we together can solve
ladies please advice
2007-02-26 17:15:46 · 7 answers · asked by raj kumar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She definetely loves you but she love her family also.she must be having family boundations so unable to express freely but still she don't want to loose you .She herself must be going through trmendous dillema.She by no means want to go against her family and she knows that her family is not going to accept you,whatever may be the reasons.Don't take her to be wrong ,talk to her parents,if your family supports you take their help.She might be worried for you.
Are you sure you love her and can do anything for her?
Try your best and be prepared for anything that happens
pray to god.
2007-02-26 18:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said that you pray commonly used for God for instance you , yet you could't come to trust that your Bf isn't the only for you. That appears like a call already made . i am going to submit a itemizing of relationship guidelines that God left for us . also do not forget that many Prisoners at the same time as they get out get stuck up interior the cares of this international .and that is the reason there's a ninety six% files (1990 files ) that they are going to pass decrease back . No telling what it really is at present . My 23 years prisoner/God reviews say that once one chooses a prisoner to marry , they have chosen a life of sorrow . we've the loose will to pick who we can marry . yet human beings favor to hearken to God no longer their hearts . the middle is desperately depraved , and has a tendency to assistance its self . fantastically a lot the reason that the divorce courts are status room in effortless words . turn remote from adult men who : are fans of themselves fans of money boasters proud blasphemers disobedient to oldsters unthankful unholy unloving unforgiving slanderers without self administration headstrong brutal dispisers of reliable traitors haughty fans of exhilaration truly than fans of God having a type of godliness,yet denying the powers thereof II Timothy 3 :a million-7 do not go jointly with a ' brother ' if he's : Immoral covetess an idolater reviler drunkard swindler a million Cor. 5:11 the steps of the righteous are ordered by the Lord . psalm 37 :23 Whoever breaks by a hedge, a serpent will bite him Eccl 10:8 The above would help you opt even if it really is God or no longer .
2016-12-05 00:26:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's sending the messages because she wants you to try and persuade her parents. This is the way girls are, you gotta be straong enough to stand up and prove yourself. Dumbo girls rarely speak of what they want. They give signs. You gotta be wise enough to understand those gesutres.
Just talk to her and ask her if you could meet her mom and dad. Just let her parents know how much you care for each other. Probably they will agree.
All da best...
:-)
2007-02-27 02:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her straight that if she is not going to marry you then you are not interested in any other type of relationship with her. Give her about one months time to convince her parents or do whatever she has to do even if it means marrying you against her parents wish. I strongly urge you to complete your MCA even if you get married. As a man you have to be firm, make decisions and stand by them. Good luck.
2007-02-26 23:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want to give a very sincere suggestion to you on the same...
first and the foremost thing is - why did u stop your education career for her?
why are you acting as if u can't live without her?
This is not the way to love or to have a faithful friendship...
Shall i tell you who are true lovers..???
Lovers are who can understanding each other by just looking each others face
Lovers are who try to adjust each others problem
Lovers are who just wants to see their partner happy by any cost
Lovers are very sincere to each other
Lovers share everything with each other no matter whatever it is
Lovers can just leave their whole life without touching each other, with the help of each others feelings.
Lovers don't need any explanation for anything
These are the qualities of lovers. I don't find any of them in your lover. Did you find any????
On thinking about your lover... i just came across a point...
should i share with you...?? u will feel shy about urself...
Apart from you and your lovers life.... have u ever thought about your PARENTS...??? Nooooo...
She can think about her family... but can't u??? your parents did not set any goal about what they want their son RAJ to be...???
They HAVE... But u have never thought about them. u left education career just for a girl, who don't even care for u..?? shall i tell u the truth... SHE IS PLAYING A GAME WITH YOU...Try this... don't speak to her for 2 to 3 months... she will forget you... True lovers do not forget each other lifelong...
What i suggest u is... leave her... u just concentrate on your goal. start your task (MCA) again... And don't worry about your marriage dear... soon a fairy will come in your life, who will be more caring, loving, faithful and trustworthy to you and your family... PLEASE DON'T WASTE YOUR PRECIOUS LIFE FOR HER... Get back to your goals
God Bless U Raj
Sur
2007-02-26 21:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boss! I know that, what situation you are now in. But try to understand, she is willingly doing it, not by the force of their parents. If she really loves you, she could have told to her parents. I think she is playing with you. She is not interested to marry you. Understand that point. Don't think other wise, She wants boy friend previously, now she don't want that.
2007-02-26 17:46:48 · answer #6 · answered by vasumadasu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because family will always come first.
2007-02-26 17:41:57 · answer #7 · answered by mosrider2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋