If I complain to my female friends that I want to have a girlfriend already, all of my friend have their own boyfriend/girlfriend, will my female friends think I am attracted to them? and btw, if i ask them "what kind of guys you are attracted to?" to see a clear idea on what kind of guy they want to date so I can be that guy and become that guy. Will they think I like them or something? if a guy ask you that, would you think? should I even complain about that to a girl?
2007-02-26 17:08:41 · 5 answers · asked by Mr Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
reword your complaint to them and instead tell them you are ready for a girlfriend and do they have any single friends that might like you as you are with out trying to become someone you are not.
2007-02-26 17:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by jezbnme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not complaining. you would need to find one that you can confide in, ask that girl what she thinks about you dating and ask her if she knows of anyone that may be interested. Let her know that you thought about it and decided she was the best person to talk to because you trust her the most. You could go as far as to start the conversation like I want you to know I think of you as a sister/best friend and wanted to discuss something with you. That way she will know right away that your not wanting to date her.
I had a best friend that was a guy and he would inform me as to what the guys I liked was really like. I helped him out all the time too. I really think it shows maturity if you are able to talk to the opposite sex about personal things like that.
This will make the friend you choose to talk to feel special that you chose her and she would be excited to help out. Or should be anyway.
GOOD LUCK
2007-02-27 01:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, if these girls are just your friends, then you should have no problems with talking to them about your problems. but it doesn't sound right when you ask what kind of guys they are attracted to, "so that you can become that guy," I mean really think about that question ! It shouldn't matter what kind of guys they want. What should truly matter is what kind of guy you truly are.
so be true to yourself, just by being yourself. you will find that you will have better relationships with friends or girl friends if you are honest about who you are.
After all these people are your friends because they see something with in you that they like !
2007-02-27 01:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by stephanie F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO* you don't complain about that to a girl if you're a guy. And if a guy asked me what kind of guys I like...YES i would take it as him wanting to know if we could hook up* If I was interested in him. Every girl has a different kind of guy they're attracted to. Same with guys about girls*
If you're interested in one of your friends, or someone else..Just go on over to them and ask them out to a movie or dinner or lunch or something* GOODLUCK*
2007-02-27 01:13:12 · answer #4 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yes..If u r that obvious they would think that u r attracted to them.If u do not want to ask them out,then u can make some other friend of yours to ask your female friend if she likes u or not.And no..u should not 'complain',because it just might sound desperate...but yes,u can just joke about it around them!U should be more confident about yourself!good luck:)
2007-02-27 01:17:34 · answer #5 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋