My boyfriend went on vacation in our country for 3 mos. We are steady for 1 1/2 years before he went on vacation. We he come back he told me that he got married to a girl that he met only for 1 month. It happen very fast he said because the family of the girl doesnt want to leave the country if he will not marry the girl. So even that he dont want he must do. Now that he comes back to me, i want him to be with me forever i dont want him to go back to his newly wed wife. What i must supposed to do. How i will gain all his love for me again so he will not leave me. Please help me.
2007-02-26 17:02:47 · 20 answers · asked by mellany s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know he loves me, thats why he come back, the only mistake he made is he did not escape because he afraid for the treat of the girl family that they will kill him if he will not marry their lady..He marry to escape and go back again to me.
2007-02-26 17:50:15 · update #1
No matter what he says, he chose to marry her. Back out and let him handle his own issues while you take some time away from him to think about the reality of your relationship with him and whether or not what you have with him is really what you want. You deserve to be someone's treasure. If he really wants to be with you, he will do what he has to do to make things right with you completely so you can be together. Don't pressure him. Accept his decisions and make your own decisions accordingly. Don't let yourself be "the other woman." That's uncool and shows that you don't respect yourself very much.
2007-02-26 17:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 04:05:20 · answer #2 · answered by Meghan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard when you find out that the man you thought you knew brakes your heart and makes the world a big empty place for you to live in by yourself.I'm not going to tell you to forget about him like everyone is telling you to do because that is easier said then done and a hurtful thing to hear.The only thing I can tell you to do is keep showing him how much you love him and maybe is will come to his senses and realize what a big mistake he just made.One thing don't put that other girl down that will only make you look bad in his eyes.Guys don't like to hear other women put other women down.
2007-02-26 17:26:41 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but he has marry someone else, regardless of the reason that he did this. if he love you he would not have marry this women after meeting for a month. you need to let this one
go and move on. if you continue this you will be in for more
heartack trust me, he not the one for you.
2007-02-26 17:18:33 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
think he is telling u stories that may not be true, hoping u will fall for them. he married her because he wanted to, u can't hold on to someone who is married to someone else, it will just break your heart. if he truly loved u as he says he never would have married her in the first place. u can't gain his love back, he is married, accept the truth here, your living in a fantasy unreal world and believing lies.
2007-02-26 22:04:31 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey he married a woman he barely knew while he was on vacation for 3 months!!! Why do you want him back??? He is obviously no good!!! Let him go and move on!!!
2007-02-26 17:08:06 · answer #6 · answered by Smurfy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and move on with your life. He is not worth your love and respect. He cheated on you AND married that girl. He must pay for his actions. Don't you see? He cheated on his newly wed wife with you too.
2007-02-26 21:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is married you have no right to see him or love him.
2007-02-26 17:50:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a really cool dude to hit on his wife. Make sure he's persistant.
2007-02-26 17:07:20 · answer #9 · answered by mantle two 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless, marriage is sacred you can't change what happened it's done. Go on find one who is available he is now off limits. You two weren't meant to be.
2007-02-26 17:06:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋